well me and my bf of 1 yr and 2 month broke up and he moved on but i haven't. it has been like a month. how can i get over him??
2007-03-03 13:22:37 · 14 answers · asked by worldstudiesbabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get some friends to force u to take you out. if necesarry try keeping a friendship with your ex boyfriend. tell your friends no matter what to not let u stay home and sulk.
2007-03-03 13:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh I was so in your boat a couple of months ago. My bf let his best friend break up with me over the net and I know that I should have been piss and moved on but i couldn't. It was like they still had this hold you and you can't let go (even thought you know they've more than moved on with their sorry *** life)
All I can say is give it time. You know you're better than that, and he just did you a favor. He made way for some great guy to come and sweep you off your feet and treat you the way you need to be treated.. The ex isn't just gonna go away(they never really do) . You just have to keep your mind off of him (I know easier said than done). You have to think about the bad things that happen and not the good and that's helps and realize that you two weren't meant to be and maybe sooner than you think) you'll look back and realize that hey I'm over him.
Give it time you'll be fine....hang in there ok....have a good one.
~ak
2007-03-03 21:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by ak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time to recover, but it's not impossible. It's good for u NOT to be in another relationship. When a person after a break up jumps right in to another relationship don't allow time to heal. That's not good, cuz the next break up will be more painful than the previous one. Allow time to help u heal. U need time to cry over it, to get mad...go out with other friends. as someone said, have some chocolate ;) it really does good to a girl! I've seen this with my female friends over n over. talk with older ladies who have good reputation n r wise. it's always good to talk about what ur going thru. listen to music that will help with ur mood, try to stay away from depressing romantic music. If ur a Christian, join a Bible study group. Seek God
2007-03-03 21:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by ironman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has only been a month--don't expect yourself to have moved on already. When I broke up with my ex, it was almost a year before I dated again. A relationship that lasts as long as yours did is not going to be an easy one to get over, trust me. I went out with my ex for 11 months, we never even kissed, and it tore my insides out when I broke up with him. HOWEVER....there is light at the end of the tunnel! When I did start dating again, I started dating a wonderful man who proposed to me last week!
BTW, are you entirely sure that your ex is completely over you? Guys don't like to show it but break-ups are just as hard on them as they are on us gals. Society has just convinced men that they can't show weakness, so of course they try to hide it when they are hurting because to show that would be a sign of weakness. He may be trying to hide that he still cares for you, he may be over you already, or he may be trying to make you jealous with the whole "oh look at me, I am already in a new relationship." Don't let him get you down! Get out and live your life. You will find love in the most unexpected places. I did. (I met my fiance at a college campus orientation event!)
2007-03-03 21:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by completenerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets see i am currently in the same situation i am keeping a strong relationship with mine and yeah he moved on and well he still likes me though and i am still madly in love with him but its helping me to go out with my friends and laugh at them while they try to get me a date or somthing i laugh t this because they suck at finding cute guys lol well yeah friends are a big help they like pry you from your house and take you someplace and make you dance or somthing with someone... i fthey see you lookin gat someone they will get him over there so fast and its pretty cool so far its helping but what brings me back is keeping a relationship with him but he is like my best friend so i would never break our friendship so yeah i would just get out there with friends and enjoy life it normally works and well if you want some more advise ask in like another month or so and see what ppl think of this now if that isnt working its a gradual thing and does take time
2007-03-03 21:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by youcantseeme2976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to focus on other things like school or friends! Just block him out your mind until you know you can deal with it...
2007-03-03 21:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by Becky<3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your girlfriends, go shopping, go on a nice vacation it is time to move on. I know its hard but you have to move on and meet other people.
2007-03-03 21:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by maxineodom2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is go out and find another boyfriend.
2007-03-03 21:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by linka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't contact him, don't respond if he tries to contact you, go out with your friends, participate in activities you enjoy, have some fun!
2007-03-03 21:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by KLB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new bf! he aint worth your time!
2007-03-03 21:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by seven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋