why are boys so mean all they care about is there selves?

Question

theres this boy that is so mean to me he calls me names

Answer 1

Cause we've got 99 problems but a ***** ain't one.

Answer 2

I know, boys are mean. They bully everybody, for no apperent reason. After thinking about it and watching their behaviors, I think that either just want the power, or they want to see other people suffer and get attention for it. They might want to get in a certain peer group, and therefor have to bully someone. Thkey might just have low self esteem and need to tease other people about their faults so they can compare themselve to them and say, "I'm not so bad, look how stupid that guy is" Whatever the reason, it's mean and wrong. I would say just ignore him or just go up to him and say sternly, "I want you to stop calling me names" or something like that and then WALK AWAY RIGHT AFTERWARD. Then he won't be able to have a comeback, and yours will just be nothing. If he does it again, ignore him and again, tell someone so they can put a stop to it. Good luck!

Answer 3

all guys are pricks and they are so mean. And yes they do think about themselves the most and don't care about no one else but themselves. I am not sure if you go to church or you cuss or what. Or fight back or what ever it is. But here is some tips:
Most of all defend for yourself and don't let that boy or anyone get the best of you. Try to ignore him the best you can. Or you can kill him with kindness, and when he calls you names, just give him a big smile and say " I pray for you." You might want to try this, confront him about it and ask him why are you calling me names and what problem do you have with me. And if he harasses in a way that you feel threatened by go to a police enforcement. It is against the law to be verbal assaulted, abuse, or harassed. good luck to you.

Answer 4

I once saw a TV talk show where a woman told of how a certain guy absolutely tormented her in high school. He was very mean to her and would seek her out just to jeer at her and laugh. She said it had a long-reaching effect on her as it crushed her self-esteem and made it very difficult for her to make friends in college. She ended up seeking counseling, which helped a lot, but she was on this talk show to finally get to confront the guy and find out why he was so cruel to her. They brought the guy out, she said her piece and then he sheepishly admitted he had done all those things because he'd had a crush on her. Her jaw literally DROPPED and she was speechless! He apologized over and over for what he'd done. When she finally regained her ability to speak, she asked him how he'd like it if one of his children was treated the way he'd treated her. He said that was exactly what was happening. One of his children was handicapped and was tormented every day by kids at school, on the bus and in the neighborhood.

The moral of this story is ... what goes around, comes around. Maybe this guy really has a crush on you too, but that certainly doesn't justify his treatment of you. Have you ever just come right out and asked him what his problem is? If it continues, talk to your parents or your teacher or your principal because what he's doing amounts to harassment and there are laws against that.

Answer 5

I don't think that boys are the only ones that are mean and think about themselves becuase girls do the same thing. Us as girls calls and make fun of boys that we like and also boys that we think are stupid and stuff like that. Well boys do the same things and pretty much for the same reasons. Just act like it doesn't bother you when he is being mean or calling you names and hopefully he will stop doing them things to you.

Answer 6

Only some boys are mean i dont think all boys are mean im not!! I have a girlfriend and she thinks im the nicest boy that she knows just find a boy that is trustworthy like me!! youll find one!! Good Luck With That advice!!!

Answer 7

I think that's a pretty subjective question. One could say all girls are mean... but this boy in question probably lacks self-esteem and uses name calling to lower his esteem of people, and raise his own self-esteem. He uses the name-calling to raise his own confidence, don't take offense to it, he's just insecure.

Answer 8

I don't know why, but they are idiots. I don't know if you are anything like me, but usually I will ask them why they are so stupid and why they boast and brag and use other people to make themselves look good. I am really loud though! Not really shy at all. Tell him to not call you names I guess.
Hey, I totally agree with you that they are stupid. Don't go dating, PLEASE!!!
In fact I gave another answer to another girl about dating if you want to read it. Just go to my Q & A!!! It gives my views. ;-)

Answer 9

If he is so mean then stay away from him. Why do you care so much? Not all boys suck but there are quite a few that do!

Answer 10

That guy just has a huge problem. He either just likes to tease people, or he is just jealous of you. Try coming up with a good comeback. For example, if he says "your stupid" to you, just say "ya well not as much as you."
If you really hate him you can say something like that. Hope he stops making fun of you! =)

Answer 11

hes a jerk. its as simple as that. im sorry theres no reason for why he should act the way he does towards you for no reason. next time he calls you a name, just turn around and say this " you have no reason to call me that you jerk!" then walk away with your head high!