My boyfriend and i had been together a long time when I decided to end it.He has a few issues that were hurting me,and messing the relationship up,so i said it was over,until he at least sorted himself out if he could,but i would meanwhile help him as a friend.We've been on one break,and in that time he briefly dated girl A and girl B.He promised that this time,he would do everything in his power to sort things out,and promised he wouldnt go off with the girls.However,he got drunk with one of the girls and slept in a bed with her although nothing happened.And now he is spending all his time with these girls and their friends.And now he mopes about how i have dumped him and begs forgiveness!Why has he went off with them,while moping about me still?!
2007-03-03 13:09:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is self centered. His actions are speaking louder than his words, hun. He isn't doing anything to sort things out. You are better off without him.
2007-03-03 13:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a player.
If he really did care about you he would quickly get his stuff together, and hope you would take him back. He wouldn't just go out with the other girls while you guys are on a break.
Another point of view you can take this as is, you basically just dumped him, he is going for rebound girls to make you jelous, the question is, is it working?
Make up your mind, do you really want him back? or do you just wanna be friends with him? If ya want him back.. TELL HIM! he wont know any other way..
2007-03-03 21:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by allie_cat_andry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon for whatever reasons you broke up with him so you have no right to wonder who he sleeps with or who he might be seeing. He might mope over you but he is getting some help getting over you. You dumped him so let him get on with his life and you get on with yours You cannot have your cake and eat it too and you cannot break up with a guy and expect him to continue to mope and moon over you. You made your bed and now, well you know how it goes
2007-03-03 21:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have dumped him and not leave it open to any chance of you getting back together. Guys like to have their cake and know that more is waiting at home for them. Time to move on... especially if you dated a long time and didn't make a commitment to get married.
2007-03-03 21:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by billy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's moping around because he isn't over you. He is hanging out with the other girls because they are giving him attention and probably like him. It sounds like he has a real self-esteem problem.
2007-03-03 21:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Michael J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz hes depressed that he's not with the one he wants to be with... If any guy gets dumped by someone he TRULY cares about, the only comfort a friend can do is take him to the strip clubs, you get what i mean? He cares about you so much that he's just trying to find comfort from the pain he's going through...
2007-03-03 21:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mark F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's a user and a dumb *** and you deserve better. Instead of worrying about him moping about you go out in this world of ours and get yourself a guy!
2007-03-03 21:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mimzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is most definitly not a good sign. even if you were on a break, he shouldn't be getting drunk with girls, IN BED especially.. outlooks aren't soo good. i think if you do decide to take him back wait a while, to actually gain that trust back. although in my own a opinion if he really liked you, he wouldn't be getting with girls. and i wouldn't take him back.
2007-03-03 21:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by supergirl07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He want to have his cake and eat it too. The wants the other girls to feel sorry for him, but he also wants you back. He sounds like a loser, don't waste your time. Let him cry to them. They can battle it out over him, but you should just stay away from him.
2007-03-03 21:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by CHICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he recieved his OSCAR yet? Surely he deserves one.......the acting job he's pulled on you I'm surprised you don't hand deliver it? He's not moping..........he is moping up your feelings like a janitor mops the floor. Forget the bum
2007-03-03 21:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋