I have been "dating" this guy for about 6 weeks. I say "dating" because when I said that to him, he freaked out and said that we're just "hanging out" and then proceeded to say that he's afraid of committment, but that he wants to "hang out" with me and see where this goes. Well since then, a huge part of me has stopped liked him b/c i'm not the type of girl that is into just "hanging out" with no committment, so I've decided to end it. I also feel like he's being a little too shifty, meaning he wants me, but wants to keep his options open. Now, we were never officially bf/gf, meaning we never told others we were together, even though we knew we kind of were. So even though we have been "dating" for 6 weeks, I feel like I need to end it with him. I really don't wanna see him and I definitely don't wanna do it over the phone. So, this friend suggested doing it over aim and i know it's rude, but I guess im asking if it's ok, esp. since we were never officially in a relationship?
2007-03-03 12:58:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THANK U so much guys. I definitely agree with all of you and to Orlando57 ......ur 2 funny and I completely agree with u:D
2007-03-03 13:15:50 · update #1
well... i feel like the two of your were "dating" but if he doesn't want to label it as that then why should u use the courteus way of breaking it off with him if you weren't together... i say use iam if he feels its rude or not polite than he shouldn't have been trying to keep his "options open"
2007-03-03 13:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by co 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are or were friends then why don't you just meet him for a drink and tell him how you feel. If you want to end it anyways then what is the harm. But I guess you don't owe him anything. But honesty is the best way around anything.
2007-03-03 13:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by gail52869 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break ups over AIM suck, even if you were never officially together. I'd advise against it.
2007-03-03 13:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by John F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
phone is better if he is laid back and not argumentative. otherwise do it on email. aim is a little weird...cuz then he'll argue and you'll have a conversation without any inflections which can cause more problems.
2007-03-03 13:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by Pearl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a fake pimp tell him to get inside his 1976 cadillac el dorado and cruise on down the track
2007-03-03 13:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, AIM is fine.
2007-03-03 13:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it.your not dating anyway
2007-03-03 13:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋