How do i react without being mean?

Question

I'm not mean or anything and I'm the best kinda person to live with. I'm clean, I share and I compromise but I'm finding it hard for me to live with my best friend. She frequently has mood swings and she is very hormonal, although she is not pregnant.But she is very rude and when I ask her stuff she always gives me half answers like when I asked her how much I owed her on grocery. Now she's suggesting that we buy seperately becuz "it'll last longer" when I think that it would be spending more money a month then we have to.Plus she's starting to become very selfish, like when we ran out of soap, she had some and didn't tell me but when I had some and we ran out I offered it to her. Lately she's become harder and harder to deal with, her attitude is getting out of control.When we're in public she acts normal, she talks to me like nuthins wrong but when we get home she shuts herself up in her room and won't say a word to me, she really has a problem or is it me? WHat should I do?

Answer 1

I think she may not like the living arrangements you both have.

I would talk to her in a public place about what you have just said above. Maybe say In a public place because ,she may become violent at home with the two of you alone.
Myself if she says the living arrangements are great, Then I think you two should sit down,and go over what you are feeling. Go over who pays what etc.I think if this does not clear up I myself would move on.

Answer 2

just sit down and talk to her about it..tell her i dont wanna live with you when your like this and nobody else would want to either..just calmy tell her to be more nicer and to have a nicer attitude..tell her if she wants to be mean go in her room and take deep breaths or scream in a pillow or something..lol..but i hope this helps..good luck..and take care :)