i have talked to my friends bout it ... nd got mix anwsers .. i need an outside oppinion
2007-03-03 12:52:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anybody who has to ask someone else if they are ready to have sex isn't ready, I don't care how old they are. Get your head together first.
I usually see 15-year olds asking this question, and I'll give you the same answer I give them: you're ready when YOU feel like you're ready, and you know what you're doing. Right now neither of these seem to be the case.
2007-03-03 12:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by kyla_bean 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not on your life. Do you have any respect for yourself? If the answer is yes then repect yourself and your body and save it. Don't give away something you can never get back. Answer this, if you knew that tomorrow after you had sex he was going to leave you would you have sex with him today? Of course not...and you have a 50/50 chance that is what will happen. Most men want one thing and once they have it they don't need you anymore. Why pay for the milk when you can get the cow for free. What would happen if you get pregnant. All birth control is not 100% effective. Are you ready to quit school and have a baby? Are you independently wealthy or are your parents going to support you and this baby...some things that make you go HMMM. Think sweetie long and hard.
2007-03-03 21:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Loriann T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, you are of legal age now it is all your choice, but a little advice if you don't feel comfortable or you don't think you're ready, don't let him pressure you, talk to him and tell him how you feel and if he loves you he'll understand and honor whatever choice you make. This is coming from someone that did not wait for the right person or time and now i wish i would have.
2007-03-03 21:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about how you feel and what you feel you are ready to take on. Just keep in mind that sex changes everything, and being the medical person I am, I have to stress the importance of protection. Only do what you are ready to do.
2007-03-03 20:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only have sex with he if YOU really want to. Don't do it just cause he wants to or because your friends think you should. I don't care how long you guys have been together, don't do it unless your ready.
I hope you make the best decision for you.
2007-03-03 21:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by charletw2623 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur 1st time should be special n u shouldnt regret it which u will n sex shouldnt be plan what the hell is wromg with him planed sex it should come naturally when u r ready n pushed into
2007-03-03 21:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why does it matter what we think, or what your friends think, or even what your boyfriend wants? all that matters here is if it is what you want.
...but since your asking for advice, don't do it. wait.
2007-03-03 20:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by jennyvee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it ONLY if u feel ready.If u do it and your not u might regret it.
2007-03-03 20:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you - get married first.
2007-03-03 20:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends if you love him than hell ya if you only like him then no!
2007-03-03 20:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by the white biotch from Epic movie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋