Girls, what do you think of relationships where you have a boyfriend or more and are allowed to date other guys. This could be either like have guy roommates that you can choose from or having a steady boyfriend with guys on the side. Sound good? What do you think of a guy that would want a girl like this?
2007-03-03 12:24:22 · 11 answers · asked by - 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also interested in knowing what guys thing of girls like this. Please be clear if you are a guy or girl and who you are writing about.
2007-03-03 12:25:09 · update #1
First you have to grow up enough to be able to not get jealous when your girlfriend tells you, "Sorry honey, can't see you tonight, I'm going out with your roommate John instead."
Second you have to be very mature, self-confident, responsible to handle such a situation and 95% of the population is not.
2007-03-03 12:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regardless of age, men are walking hormones. and they will take as long as your giving it away regardless. someone that you say are dating and is OK with this arrangement of you with other male relationships then they do not respect you and care for you the way you perhaps in your mind that they do. no matter what they say or how much they say they care about you. because if they did care they would respect you and would treat you accordingly and would be upset to see you with another boy. respect yourself and you will find a relationship that has the attention and respect that you are looking for. you have too much to offer for anything less. no matter what others may say. you'll also feel good and respect your self. and that is nothing anyone can give or take from you. be careful in your choices. girls get reputations that stay with them beyond high school.
2007-03-03 20:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by irisheyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having an open relationship is great if you both feel the same. But be careful some times playing with more than one heart can be confusing, and can lead to someone getting really hurt. As long as you feel good thats what counts! Best of luck!
2007-03-03 20:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most, if not all guys, would not go for that. Its not really fair, for one girl to date several guys at once, How would you feel, if you knew your boyfriend had 6 other girlfriends besides you. It would turn into a big competition, and it would no longer be any fun at all! Dont
2007-03-03 20:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, I wouldn't want anything to do with a girl like this. I am not interested in picking up someone elses sloppy seconds and then having to visit the clinic.
2007-03-03 20:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i'm a girl, and i really don't think that's a good idea.
you wouldn't want to be one of several girls, would you ?
also, how would you feel if the guys found out, and then they ALL dumped you. not so good, right?
or the guys could all get in a fight, and somebody could get seriously hurt.
if you're really serious about doing this, just be careful. don't get yourself into something that you're not ready for.
2007-03-03 20:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by you - with the face :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl and I think that if you are acually doing that that you are a slut,even if you aren't going all the way with them, and that this also may mean that you might be afraid of comitment and that is why you have so many guys.
2007-03-03 20:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by Purple Moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sick.... but if thats the kind of relationship u choose to have.Just use protection..
2007-03-03 20:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless there's a ring on your finger, do what you feel is best for you!
2007-03-03 20:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it, you only live once, enjoy.
2007-03-03 20:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋