since its seems people have an issue with me typing words the wrong way. im going to write it this way. *Note* i do not talk like how i normally write.
i just dont like typing the whole word
anyway............
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ok there is this girl that i like, we liked each other but she kinda liked someone else too that lived closer to her. then she went with him(about a month ago when they first went out) but she also said she thinks about me alot. then she said she was confused about who she should of went wit. about a couple of hours ago she said she was going 2 stay single for awhile because she was stressed and confused
she still says she really likes me as a bf
im not trying to pressure her into going wit me but is there anything i could do so that it could possibly help???
i really need help
i really like her
i cant express this enough lol
2007-03-03 12:12:05 · 9 answers · asked by jaye3rd89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if i was in this situation, i would always try to be her shoulder to cry on and encourage her to take as much time as she needed. Dont try to rush her or be all over her, because when girls say they need to be single to relax and distress they mean it, and if you push them it turns them off torwards you. So once agian dont rush her. Maybe ask her if she wants to hang out or go to the movies sometime. That will show that you like her and that you want her to choose you, but when your at the movies dont make any sudden moves, this may also turn her off. I hope i have helped and i wish you luck
2007-03-03 12:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what to do. Continue to be her best friend. Continue to be kind and attentive as you would be to any other friend. I can't be sure of your age, but if she says she wants to be single for a while, she sounds like a smart girl, respect her for that and don't pressure her or smother her. Stepping back from a relationship and showing her you can abide by her wishes shows an amazing amount of maturity on your part. (no one likes a stalker) That said, keep busy with other friends and activities, concentrate on your school work and be open to other girls who may really like that you aren't aware of right now.
2007-03-03 20:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by tlcats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her. Let her know that you are really interested in her but you are willing to wait until she get herself together. While you are waiting do special things for her. Maybe buy her flowers or ask her if you all can go out just to have fun. BUT DO NOT BE A PEST. girls hate that. Watch her signals. Body language tells a lot.
2007-03-03 20:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know she contact you anytime she wants to talk about the things that are making her confused. Wait a while before going out together and let it be on her terms. This requires patience. You could always be friends for a lifetime.
2007-03-03 20:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she likes u and u like her. ask her out but dont do it 2 soon or at the wrong time. first talk 2 each other a little more and when u guys are alone at the park or w/e ask her out. believe me, you'll know when the time is right. hoope this helps
2007-03-03 20:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's saying she needs everyone to just back off for a while. So, give her space, let her know you're around & available, but get on with your life. She wants you/needs you, she'll come looking for you. I think that would help her as well as you. Good luck.
2007-03-03 20:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh jaye, jaye, jaye. i know you really like her, but babycakes, shes using you big time. she only wants you around when she finds it necessary. please dont fall for that. youre not an idiot. dont act like one with this girl. shes stressed and confused? about what? you dont need this type of aggrivation. you stay single and let her know how it feels to be put on the back burner until you make up your mind.
2007-03-03 20:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, give her some time...that is all she is asking right now...give her some space and see what happens. she probably does think a lot of you, but to know for sure, you need to give her a few days...then contact her, so she knows you care....
2007-03-03 20:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U REPOSTED THIS LIKE 5 TIMES SAYING THE EXACT SAME THING!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-03 20:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by socchick814 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋