Ok. So I was with my boyfriend in the backseat of a car... and we were just making out... and he suddenly just looked at me and told me that he loves me. I'm completely in love with him too, but how do I know if he means it? He seems really genuine... and he's definitely sweet but I don't know if he means it or not. It hurts to think that he might just be messing with me. I really hope he's not, but the thought is still there.
2007-03-03 12:05:30 · 9 answers · asked by amy j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to give him the opportunity to prove himself correct until he gives you a reason why you can't believe him. Trust the ones you love, if you can't trust them then how can you learn to love them?
2007-03-03 12:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he means it,from my personal experience it takes alot of nerve for a guy to use the l word.most,if they are respectable guys will only tell you that if they are sure that is how they feel.on the other hand there are guys who will tell you that only to get what they want at the time. but if you have been with this guy for awhile and feel like you know him very well then you should go with your gut instinct.we all have one.and if he can tell you he loves you while you are not in the backseat.then he does.
2007-03-03 12:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by browneyed gal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he pays alot of attention 2 u and he doesnt check out other girls while hes with u then it means he really loves u. also if he calls u on the phone for no reason, holds ur hand unexpectaly and makes u feel safe around him then he truly loves u. hope this helps
2007-03-03 12:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Diamond and InTheROugh, the guy means it. Why wouldn't he? Good men, never say something they don't mean. If you love him, just like he loves you, then accept it! If he's still interested in you, in 2 to 6 years, he's the one for you.
2007-03-03 12:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still with you in 30 years time with a house, kids and grand kids then he means it. You will just have to wait and see.
2007-03-03 12:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it was heat of the moment but u just have to see how he acts now its out in the open that will tell u if he loves you or not
2007-03-03 12:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry but i dnt think anyone besides ur bf can answer ur question....if u trust him then believe him too and everythin happenz in life fo a reason so he told u he luvz u fo a reason...dnt doubt ur bf if u realli luv him gud luck
2007-03-03 12:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i swear to you,he means it
its just hes soo happy you are soo inlovee!
he never believed youd love him this much
so wen you guys maked out,he thought in his mind
that you love him soo much you would do anything for him
2007-03-03 12:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that he really loves you
2007-03-03 12:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by Diamond 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋