He in the class on the other side of my hallway,But he is soo hot >i m to shy to ask him out .How should i tell him
2007-03-03 11:52:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is this kid and his name is Brent and he so hot .But i am to shy to ask him out .How Should I ask him
2007-03-03 11:53:42 · update #1
Well first you should get to know him better, because even though he is hot his personality may be out of whack. So i would let things progress on their own for awhile, just hang out as friends and get to know each other better, and when that happens and you think he lieks you then just take a deep breath and maybe slip a hint that you like him, you can do this by asking him if he wants to hang out, go to the movies, go to a dance together, or even ask if he wants to go bowling, just ask him if he wants to do anything with you so you can soend time together. Then when you get there and you htink the timeing is right take another deep breath, clear your mind and go for it. If it was me I would wait for him to ask just so then i knew he liked me because im shy about things like that too. also never send a "messenger" to ask him for you, that makes guys dissapointed and they may lose intreset in a girl who is to shy to ask him. Well i hope i have helped
2007-03-03 12:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha! I know a "hot guy" named Brent. He's a dancer. From what I know it is a VERY STUPID idea to ask a hot guy out.
Think about it. He probably gets approached by "shy girls" all the time who try to hide the fact that they like him by talking about "innocent things", but he knows and they boost his ego even further.
Do you want to fall into that stereotypical/manipulative girl category that he is so well acquainted with? Or do you want to actually be able to go out with him?
Thought so. Ignore other people's advice. If you tell feelings, he will just be cautious around you and will NOT want to be his usual fun self because he will be too preocupied with trying to make sure you don't fall in love with him like every other girl.
This is what you do: Ask him his name. When he tells you, say "Cool" and WALK AWAY. Next day, you ask him a simple question he can answer quickly. Wait for him to answer and be like "Interesting... See you later." WALK AWAY. Next day, DON'T talk to him. Day four, you can flirt and stuff or talk. Make sure that from now on, you DO NOT spend more than 10 minutes doing anything with him unless HE initiated something or ASKED YOU TO TALK WITH HIM or something like that. Every few days, just don't see him at all.
All of this says that you aren't desperate, that you have a life, that you aren't intimidated, that you aren't crowding, that you are cool, that you won't be a controlling girlfriend, and MANY OTHER THINGS. He should ask you out in at the most, one month (If you are at least average in looks... sorry, but you can't deny reality).
There you go,
Franklin
2007-03-03 12:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a text message, email or pass him a note. Make your message really clear...something like.
Hey (Name goes here)
I think you are really nice and I'd like to go out with you some time.
(Your name) x
He'll probably reply in the same format that you sent the message (like reply to the email). If it's good news then you can go out. If it's bad news then at least he won't see how dissapointed you are and there is less pressure on both parties.
2007-03-03 11:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Joe1664 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my adventure, it somewhat is a self belief element. and that i'm guessing the adult adult males you will possibly call 'creepy' or the adult adult males with the arrogance. this is an age previous situation. component of the project must be the places you will. i might in simple terms say that whilst you're friendly, affable and approachable, which will come by using and it's always extra probable that a 'good' guy will know that. Failing that - see somebody you think of is definitely one of those guy you need and 'wink'. it somewhat is all there is to it.
2016-10-17 05:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by dudik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. Dream about him, that's probably more fun right now. The man meant for you will cross your path and ask you out. Be patient. Sometimes following through with infatuations quickly leads to heartbreak and disappointment once the person isn't what you thought they were. But fantasizing and dreaming is okay.
2007-03-03 11:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by VW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk right up to him look him in his eyes and ask him if he'd like to go out on a date with you,it's the shock that will get him to say yes.
2007-03-03 11:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him your phone number on a napkin.
2007-03-03 11:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a reason to bump into him
2007-03-03 11:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by HopelessOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest... tell him you're shy... and ask him out!
Worse thing he could say is "no"....
2007-03-03 11:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by doktor.vonster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him u think hes cute
2007-03-03 12:01:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋