After our first date we had a to work out some issues and differences, but now we are going out again. We met two months ago and have only been on two dates partly because we had issues to work out after the first date. though we talk several times a week, which is why I am asking this.
Since we talked about the issues and have agreed to start going out again/started going out again, she has really started to talk to me a lot, with a lot of enthusiasm, telling me (without me asking) about whats happening in her life, what she did that day, what kind of things she likes to do, watch on tv, etc. She seemes to have really become comfortable being herself around me, though I know she is shy.
Is this a good or bad sign? Should she be opening up this quickly?
2007-03-03 11:43:58 · 7 answers · asked by Happy G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we made out on our first date btw...
2007-03-03 14:02:06 · update #1
It isnt a bad sign. on the contrary, you said it yourself, although she is shy she is opening up to you. Maybe she really want things to work out and this is the way of showing it. On the other hand, this could be a problem if you are not really in to her or the relationship is going on two different speeds. If you think she is going to fast you may be afraid of where things are going.
Dunno, good or bad? entirely up to you and how you feel
Good luck
2007-03-03 11:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by nyenelra 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talking too much isn't the bad sign. The bad sign was having problems just after a first date. If I have problems with a first date, I don't ever, ever have a second date. What a waste of time. That should have been a red flag from the get go. I don't think what she's talking about is an issue. She telling you because apparently, you aren't asking her and wants you to know her. I still say go find someone you don't have issues with just after a first date.
2007-03-03 19:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
yes that is an extremely good sign, don't be scared of it.. unless of course you don't like her that much and Don't want to Ever become boyfriend and girlfriend with her... in which case she is going to get really hurt. shy girls usually Don't/Can't open up that quickly to guys they like.. and when they find one they can then for them this is really good, it means you are a great guy she can open up to. just means she has found someone she really likes enough to want to do everything she can to give it a try and make it work!
i am the same way in shyness and just barely found the guy i could open up to... but i was Just Barely starting to get to that point that you and her are Already at, and hadn't quite reached it in time, before the guy found some other girl who Did open up quickly.. and the guy didn't want to wait for me to reach that point and found someone else sooner who did. so he didn't know i was almost to that point.. but i did, and it hurt me more than ever. so yeah.. if that helps?
2007-03-03 19:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by coolio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a good sign obviously.
She's beginning to trust you and that is why she is telling you all these things. Maybe she's liking you more and more, I don't believe this is a bad sign, or why else would she be telling you all this?
2007-03-03 19:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by MOVED! 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
This is a good sign if you desire a relationship with this girl. She definitely likes you, if she is so shy yet shares so much with you. It is completely normal for a girl to open up to a guy... assuming she wants to be with him. Now it's up to you. Please don't break her heart, and just be honest with her. Open up to her as well if you want something serious. Even if you just want something casual, let her know, and be thoughtful. Good luck!
2007-03-03 19:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by emmabee2203 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Congradulations! She trusts you and really enjoys talking to you. This is a good sign, but if you start showing that your uncomfortable she might think you dont like her.
2007-03-03 19:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
only two dates hmmmm..... this is a little weird becaus eshe may only thnk of u as a friend that she can tell anything to........
be careful cuz she may be just a friend
2007-03-03 19:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋