I have a secret crush on my own sister who is two years older to me. She is beautiful, kind and very understanding. I think I'm a decent person and making any move on my sister is impossible but I wonder if this is norman for man of my age or something is wrong with me. Your honest
2007-03-03 11:43:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not gonna be like others here and be quick about it and say you are f-ed up and need help, even though there is a lot of truth to that. I will say that it is your sister! Someone who came from the same blood, the same mother, what would you tell your friends and family if you were dating your own sister?
What you need to do is sit and think about what you are doing. Does your sister remind you of your mother? Because Freud says our first crushes are on our opposite sex parent, and if your sister is mother-like to you, then you could be just going through something psycological that you will eventually get over. Its called the Oedipus Complex. Try your hardest to just let it pass and find a girl like your sister who isn't related to you.
2007-03-03 11:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by Terry 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well, I must say it is quite odd. But seriuosly, there is something a bit wrong with it in my opinon. As some one else has stated, we do not know your age, but a good guess would be teens. I can understand if you are a virgin and see a smokin hot girl walking around the house in some nice sexy panties and bra that it could be tempting.
In my opinion, it would be wrong, very wrong, but maybe you can hook up with one of your sisters friends. That would be much better and not sick at all....
2007-03-03 20:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by s_olover 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am an only child, so I don't have any experience in your shoes. I wouldn't be ashamed of feeling this way, I am sure many sibling get attracted to each other sometimes in their lives. This is a normal feeling you shouldn't feel bad about it.
Now I think it would be wrong to make out with your sister, don't get me wrong. I don't believe in Incest, but what you are feeling is normal don't sweat it.
2007-03-03 19:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
based on the fact I have no idea how old you are and I'm going to have to assume your in your teens, which if that is true then there is probably really no problem with you being attracted to ur sister, your most likely gonna outgrow it. Just don't start making moves on her or stalking her
2007-03-03 19:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by chance y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I am blown away don't become an inbreed. You are just secure being around her that isn't being in love. You will find somebody. I hope
2007-03-03 19:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats messed up, but I'm not one to judge. Why don't you go find another chick just like your sis?
2007-03-03 19:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by SpOokz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is somethig wrong with you.that is sick to be in love with your sister!! GROSS as in insest GROSS!! buddy you need to go see a psychatrist(a head doctor)!! if your sister knew this she would probably soccer punch you and will start being paranoid about you looking at her or to even hug her as a sister cuz you'd be thinking nasty thoughts of her!! please go get help!!!
2007-03-03 20:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by wildernessfox 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
*sigh* that's pretty sick dude. watch some porn to get your mind of your sister. seriously. and don't make it incest porn either.
2007-03-03 19:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Houston.. I think we have a problem!
2007-03-03 19:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ok there buddy?
i think you must have hit your head really hard.
2007-03-03 19:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋