i have acne and i think i am ugly! and i want a girlfriend
2007-03-03 11:36:56 · 19 answers · asked by TROJANS ARE DA BEST! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no one is ugly, and no one is beautiful. I would suggest trying to get to know a girl that you really like and just be yourself. Only shallow girls go for the handsome guys who later in life turn out to be a good for nothing husband. The normal girls go for guys with a great personality. Also if you have a bad case of acne try not to touch your face a l ot and make sure you wash it before you go to bed, also maybe try proactive solotion
2007-03-03 11:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude, look at my picture! I'm the ugliest! BUT a lot of girls found my ugliness OK, because I was funny, happy, and honest. I never had a date till I was 18.
BUT things changed. I've dated super models, one actress, and the girls that shunned me in high school, and part of college call frequently. Even with indecent invitations.
With age my friend, you will truly find that beauty is skin deep. It's what's on the inside that counts.
Hang in there, and get the education. All you can get. Then the women will hunt you down! Just be yourself. Not a show off. Be kind to EVERYONE! Be happy.
Bigdog
2007-03-03 19:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Bigdog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to tell you the same thing as I told my friend Kelsea. Stay on the positive side and never give up. Though you might not find the right girl right now, if you give it some time, you WILL be able to find someone who loves you for you. Even if it takes a lifetime. Forget about the fact that you have acne. I have acne too and I have a boyfriend that loves me for my personality. If your patient, you'll find an awesome girl who'll love you. But don't change your whole personality for one girl cause you wasting your time.
2007-03-03 19:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by resse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have acne doesn't make you ugly a lot of people have that. i'm sure that your not ugly. is there someone you want to date. if she's not dating anyone maybe start out as friends and see what happens. I hope that helps you.
2007-03-03 19:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by vickie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find your angle. If your a funny guy then you can use that as you in (girls love guys who can make them laugy). You could raise your game style wise so you are always looking your best (girls notice this). If you are clever then you can join an achademic club and achademic girls will find you attractive. Or you can learn to dance Ballroom or salsa. If you have got the moves then girls don't care what you look like so long as they can dance with you.
There is however a sure fire way to get a girlfriend. Study hard and go to college. It's easy there for some reason.
2007-03-03 19:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by Joe1664 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't like guys who aren't confident and have low self esteem. Don't put yourself down like that, I'm sure you're not ugly. If your acne bothers you so much, order ProActiv Solutions, my best friend Courtney tried it and she has no acne whatsoever now, I swear by it. If it's so bad that not even ProActiv can help, maybe see a dermatologist. I am sure they can help.
So in conclusion just get to know more girls and charm them with your personality not your looks.
2007-03-03 19:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
truth is, i have acne too, a lot of it. and i had a really hot boyfriend. i think acne is the perfect solution because you know that when you are going out with someone, they like you based on personality and character.not looks. so hold your head high, there is someone out there for everyone. don't get discouraged, when the right time comes, you'll find her.
2007-03-03 20:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by skigrrrrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have acne too. Well one you can raise your self esteem. Like me personally I know that I'm not a Beyonce or Halle Berry. But everyone is cute in their own way and someone is sure to think so. But that person isnt always gonna come to you....you might have to go out and find that person.
2007-03-03 19:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by Dionna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get proactive and that will help with the acne i promise that that will help with the acne and thats beacause i use it and it helps so much!! find someone that u r friends with that can get u like a blind date and then you will already be on a date and then charm the girl and it will work out somehow... and alot of people have acne.
2007-03-03 19:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, ugly or beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But there is more than that ,treat her like a lady not like a sex object.. Be kind, be nice, be sincere. It will shine through. This may take some time......for her to realize, but hang in there. This is what women really want. Well that and good sex, but I get ahead of myself.........it just takes time........It also helps to be well endowed
2007-03-03 19:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋