Okay dude... you do have a problem. Women can sense EVERYTHING you believe in the way you carry yourself. You are probably showing in several ways that this limiting belief of your height is going to stop you from enjoying success. You can't do that.
You must first not see it as a weakness. I know MANY guys who are around 5'5 who date women who are at least 5'8 REGULARLY. The thing is that you wouldn't expect it if you saw them.
The thing is that they carry themselves like MEN. They don't look for approval and THEY are the ones seeing if the woman is good enough for THEM. If you adopt this attitude and actually believe it, it will show. The hard part is believing it. The rest of you is WAY more influencial in getting a woman to be attracted to you. So work on your inner game.
Hope I helped,
Franklin
2007-03-03 11:44:17
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answered by Anonymous
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I think it's not that females aren't attracted to men just because they're short, but because of the insecurities they feel when with short men. Sometimes it can be very awkward to be a tall woman and tower over a man. Women naturally want to be protected and sheltered every so often by their man, and when the man is shorter they feel as if they must assume the manly role in protecting. So it may not be that you have a personality flaw, but just the height thing. If it continues to be a problem, try dating girls at your height or shorter. Just try not to focus on or mention height when finding a girlfriend, and it shouldn't be as much of a focus to her either! Good luck!
2007-03-03 11:42:14
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answered by Anonymous
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ok here is how it works height is not that big of a deal to women unless it is like 5 inches or so. here is what you need to do. not worry about your height i know sometimes it is hard because i even worry sometimes but lots of women love short men here is how you get girls attention. 1 women love and i do mean love confidence it is a huge turn on for women 2. dress nice women love a well dressed man like button up shirts 3. make sure you keep you face clean and nice looking. women love smooth skin 4. hair dont let you hair get really long here is what i do i get hair gel and cut my hair short but not that short and spike your hair up 5.kindness and caring when you approach a woman show her that you are a good person and you have good goals in life the best way is see if she is checking you out and if she is looking odds are you will get the date. best way to approach her is say hi my name is insert name you are and she will tell you hers. i have never been turned down because of my height in fact i have olny been turned down onec in my life so that is good 6. intelligence women love smart men. and a man that can carry a conversation good can keep her attention 7. go for shorter women it is ok to go a few inches up like 3 or so but dont go up for really tall girls but my last girlfriend was 4 inches taller then me and we did not break up because of are height. so just do what i said and follow these 7 answer and you will do just fine
2007-03-05 15:08:13
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answered by tweeky 2
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I am 5'3", but truthfully height doesn't really matter. I am attracted to guys of all heights. I'd be absolutely fine dating a guy who was 5'6". I certainly don't think there's anything wrong with you. You just haven't met the right girl yet. I wish you luck finding her :)
2007-03-03 11:43:12
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answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5
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Well it's just that some girls like to have a guy that is taller than them. It makes us feel more "safe" you could say, like we feel like the women in the relationship and have someone bigger to protect us etc. It may be something else that the girls don't like about you? I'm not saying that there is something wrong with you but it's a thought. && I'm sure you'll find "The One" who will accept you for you, Trust me ALOT of girls are shorter than 5'6, You'll find someone. =)
2007-03-03 11:39:32
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answered by MOVED! 5
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im sure you are allright maybe you attract women who just want friends its not a problem someone wwill love you unconditionally just have to wait or hunt her down. or maybe you are trying too hard act like you dont care most women loves what they cant get,
2007-03-03 11:41:53
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answered by freeflow 6
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Height doesn't matter that much to me....there are still so many shorter girls in this world...so, date those girls, don't go over girls who are tall dear.
2007-03-03 11:39:26
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answered by Isabel 2
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to me hight does not matter its the personality and the way he is that matters to me
2007-03-03 11:58:17
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answered by Brooke H 2
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