My nine year old brother and I got into a fight! I asked him to get something for me and he said no get it your self you know where it is. I said no I don't because I don't live here! He goes good I don't want you to live here. Now I'm only 12, and he's 9. So please help me!!!!
**Danielle**
2007-03-03 11:19:02 · 8 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That's a funny argument! I hope you can both laugh about it. Sounds like your brother is pretty clever at coming up with a sassy answer. I'd say give him a big hug and enjoy him being a little nine year old while you can!
2007-03-03 11:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Eclectic_N 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are bigger issues here. he may say he's glad you don't live there but it could be more then that maybe he misses you more then you think. i don't know why you don't live with him in the same house but you may want to start working on your relationship with your brother now if you want to have one in the future. that may mean visiting more and doing more bother/sister things. work on the issue why your not home as well if he see that you didn't leave him he will come around. take care and i hope all works out..
2007-03-03 11:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by tlcoufan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heay 9 year old barys are tough. dump some dirt on his head. (I used milk cause it was handy when I needed it) But anything will work. I have a 15 yearold sis 13yearold me 9 yearoldsis 7yearold bro 5yearold bro I no what it feels like to have no respect!
2007-03-03 13:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by ****** * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be nice to him (he is younger than you and its up to you to make the things between yourselves OK) sooner or later he will regret his actions, it is not something new or dramatic, every problem can be solved with kindness, never forget that. you guys are the closest people to each other in the whole world, why not have fun and good time. Think about it.
2007-03-03 11:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an annoying little brother too so I can relate. Just call up a friend to cool down. It's just one little thing. Don't make a big deal out of it.
2007-03-03 11:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by resse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is your younger brother and coming from experience he may feel that he was bossed around and nobody likes that. Even more you didnt have to let it escalte into a fight. You could have asked him where to find what you wanted then get it yourself.
2007-03-03 11:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by dancingqueen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
brothers and sisters are always like this.
talk to him about it.
goodluck
2007-03-03 11:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by classy.chic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he thinks u r stealing his parent time??
2007-03-03 11:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by Make Love Not War! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋