my boyfriend and I have been together for the past 3 years in a happy, loving relationship. the only thing is that he's not a very good kisser. I told him that we can help each other out, but he claims I'm a bad kisser (I know I'm not cuz. I got lot of compliments about being good before). and he doesn't seem to work on it, so we just skip on kissing. at first it didn't bother me but now it's beginning to because I miss that kind of passion. how do I get him to improve?
serious answers only please. and i'm not going to break up with him.
2007-03-03 11:16:38 · 5 answers · asked by frazzlesnap 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
* I'm sorry.... Don't stop kissing !!! Keep working at it.
I hope this website helps:
The first key to becoming a better kisser is to think about how you feel during the whole kissing experience. This may seem selfish, but kissing is a highly reciprocal act. This means that if you feel like the kiss sucks, then the person you are kissing probably does too. Focus on making the other person feel good by relaxing. This includes your whole body, your head and neck, and especially your lips. Loosen up a bit and try to let things just flow. Once you get to know your partner better, you'll start learning their perks and this includes how to sweep them off their feet when you kiss them. If you don't, you won't have to worry for long because they'll be gone and you'll have to start over with someone new.
2007-03-03 11:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by Golden Smile 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well just do whatever it takes to work it out if you guys do want to kiss badly. He can't tell you that he's a bad kisser if he's a bad kisser himself!
2007-03-03 11:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 08:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just one of the most natural things to do and so easy. Tell him to relax and just spend the evening kissing.nothing else until you both get it right. He needs to be gentle and not aggressive.
2007-03-03 11:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is show him...
2007-03-03 11:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋