theres this guy i met online,jason,and weve been dating for awhile and we met several weeks ago and we both love each other,i still havent met him yet but theres something about him,we have so much in common and everything and we really wanna be together but he works a minimum wage job that doesnt pay much and lives with his friend and there wife and kids,hes 23,his best friends like 30 somethin,but i trust jason with all my heart and i dont think he will break my heart.He tells me that i am the most beautiful girl hes ever dated and seen,he says he loves me and wants to be here with me soo bad.Do you think he really loves me? and we are both fast in relationships when it comes to loving someone because we get attached fast and we both really really like each other.
2007-03-03 11:05:36 · 10 answers · asked by me m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you better see him first and talk face-to-face before being his official girlfriend!
2007-03-03 11:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Trapped in a Box 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know someone that met his girlfriend online and now they are married. But the girlfriend moved to the same location from another state. If this person is long distance it could be a real problem as far as really getting to know each other in person. It is very easy to like each other online but you have to spend real time together in person to truly get to know one another. That is really the only way to be sure if this guy is the real thing. While I dont know Jason at all he does not seem to be ready for a commitment yet. He is not self-reliant and although money isn't everything it really helps in a relationship (if you are considering living together or getting married someday I mean). I wish you both alot of luck.
2007-03-03 19:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by Toothie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a man, let me tell you- were superficial. Ok, admittingly men can fall in love. But we can fall in love with many women, sometimes more than one at a time.
BUT, you have not met the man. You have not seen him when he is stressed, when he is happy or sad. You don't know how he reacts when your upset or need space. Sounds like, although you have alot in common and seem to want to be together, there is too much in question.
If he is 23 and still working minium wage, he needs to grow up and apply himself. That should be a signal to you as well. I am sure this is not what you want to hear, but its just my opinion.
2007-03-03 19:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by j s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm its hard to tell from the beginning. usually couple think they're in love and they are the one during the time when they are just getting to know each other. The beginning is always the best, but later on, they can start to lose feelings once they know more about you. But you never know what happens... Just dont expect this guy to be the love of our life right now.
2007-03-03 19:15:58 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puked
2007-03-03 19:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by Royce 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't give your trust too much with him my dear... I can say that, the why you knew him is still not enough.. be carefull especially for those strangers..
2007-03-03 19:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by snd_jeddah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really cares for you and has deep feelingfs for you.
2007-03-03 19:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by (= 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he say's he love you, you can be sure he really does!!!
2007-03-03 19:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says so then yes he does
2007-03-03 19:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should feel it, you just know.
2007-03-03 19:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by angelalovin2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋