I have been talking to this Girl for about 8months, She Currently has a boyfriend. But here is the deal...I started talking to her back in june and we hit it off pertty good. Over the Course of all this she has spend the night with me and comes to see me everyday. She does all this behind her boyfriends back by telling him lies about where she's at. She also told me her true feelings about me about how she cant go a day without seeing me and she thinks about me all the time when im not with her and how im such a great guy.I have met her Family and are somewhat close with them and we also work together..Her current boyfriend has a few things that worry her about any kind of a future...He has a drinking problem and a hugh Financial problem..He is bad in debt and cant manage money. On top of this he shows no signs of wanting to grow up and take reponsibility...She has said that her love for him has changed but she still loves him.I love this girl with all my heart and i know she does me 2
2007-03-03 11:05:22 · 5 answers · asked by Randy M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, we had a great Valintines....She got me alot of Georgia Bulldogs stuff and Candy and I got her a Necklace and Flowers/Candy....her actually boyfriend got her nothing.....I never felt so lost about what to do about this situaution....please help
2007-03-03 11:07:13 · update #1
I also forgot to add this has been her only boyfriend.....she lost her virginity to him and she is 20yrs old and her boyfriend is 19.........Just so no one thinks she would do the same to me
2007-03-03 11:11:34 · update #2
If she was going to leave him, she would have, you are just a pleasant diversion that actually allows her to stay with him.
2007-03-03 11:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
over time that would be a greeaaaaaaat possibility but right now she isnt leaving her current bf because maybe she is scared for the change and doesnt want to leave him because he has so many issues that she may believe that she can solve for him. be patient and be a friend that will be there for her.
2007-03-03 11:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-03-03 11:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by ivan the mighty 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be very leary of someone who was cheating!
I am telling you now, if she cheats on him she will cheat on you.
This girl needs to get her S h i t together, and set things straight. If not you need to move on.
2007-03-11 11:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. If she is sick of the situation , she has to end it. Then you and her can sail away in to the sunset.
2007-03-03 11:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by summit_of_human_intellect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋