I'm 23 and my mom has been divorced my whole life and had different boyfriends though the years. She is 39, and had me at a young age. She is now dating a man named Ted, he's 26 and i thought that was kind of weird. Last night my mom had a business ceminar and i was left home alone with Ted and he asked if i wasnted to watch a movie. He;s a really nice guy and he;s become more like a friend to me than a step father figure. Anyways during the movie i really was starting to like him and he asked if i was cold and i said yes and he got me a blanket. Then i offered to share part of the blanket with him and he accepted then we ended up kissing. It was amazing. He enjoyed it too and we went much further than we should have...I really like this guy and i dont know what to do. My mom doesnt know.
2007-03-03 11:05:21 · 23 answers · asked by Jane F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are infatuated, well just remember in any contest between you and the boyfriend at 23 you will lose, and your relationship with your mother will be permanently damaged. Sounds like he is playing you both...
2007-03-03 11:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh...that is not a good situation because it is your mother that you are betraying and if and when she finds out it will hurt her badly! Depending on how serious her relationship with Ted is. If they have only bbeen dating a few weeks than maybe you could talk to her about it and let her know how u feel and maybe she will baack off...But...still if this man is cheating on your mother (with u) would you really want to be with him he obviously doesnt care about his girlfriends feelings so doesnt that show u how he would treat u! Make the best decision for you and your mother because your relationship with eachother is much more important than your relationship with some guy...this sounds jerry springer-ish (nott gooood!) Good Luck though
2007-03-03 11:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by *Mariah* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to choose between him and your mom. Your mom should win this, don't hurt her, he's not worth it. Look at it this way, he's going out with a lady and cheated on her with her daughter. Something right off the Jerry Springer show right? Tell him you don't want that to happen again and that it was wrong, well if you choose your mom over him, which is what I would do.
2007-03-03 11:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kunggpao 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Weird situation?
Hi, i am a 24 year old male and i have a very attractive 2nd cousin who i have always been attracted to. The other day we were at a family gathering at my grandparents farm and me and her ended up making out. I know it's wrong and we promised never to do it again but she knows i really like her and she likes me too. i wish we weren't related so badly because after all these years i think i might really be in love with her and i know she feels the same. Is there any way we can be together?
2007-03-03 11:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by ann s 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't you think that pretty messed up beside the age difference that's your mother. The relationship has to STOP! How would you like it if you're mom did that to you? He's wrong and so are you. I think you should let her know because the damage is already done.
2007-03-03 11:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by MrS.WilSoN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you really like him but break it off asap, because its you mom. Also, if he was involved with your mother and ended up doing that with you that brings up the question of his infidelity.
But youre still in love tell you mom how you feel. The truth will set you free.
2007-03-03 11:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by dancingqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, you are going to have to back away from this one. He is only three years older than you, but you did overstep the line. Its like the best friend rule - no guy is worth losing your mom over.
2007-03-03 11:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a segment from a Jerry Springer Show. I'd say if he's your step father, he over stepped his boundaries regardless of how close you both are in age. He's an idiot and you knew what you were doing too.. especially at 23.. That's taboo....
2007-03-03 11:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what you thinging girl that is your moms boyfriend not your and he should have known better if he did this to you this means he will cheat on your mom and break her heart well you need to talk to your mom first you dont need this guy in your family he is not worth it he will distroy you and your mom's relationship plus he needs to grow up your mom needs to find someone closer to her age not a child who don't know what he wants out of life
2007-03-03 11:17:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should tell your mom about what happen and i don't think that you should did that because say if you was your mom and your mom was you how would you fell and how could u do that to your mom the preson that had u and love you way u just couldn't find your own man
2007-03-03 11:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by lilchris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋