The first date went great, we made out at me casa :) She suggested we get together again, gave me a hug at her car (blow off?) but I didn't like that so kissed her instead.
Getting the second date has proven to be a little more difficult than the first date. I emailed to hang out Tuesday, she said she has to work (her schedule is kinda flexible though). I asked if I could change her mind she said maybe Saturday, if ok with me.
I countered with Friday because I had plans on Sat. She said maybe since she has to work that night, though it should only be a couple of hours before she is off though. I told her to let me know when she is available I will go with my friends and she said she would let me know, apologized for being difficult and too busy (hard to get tactics?) and that she really does like hanging out with me.
She said she had to work the first time I asked her out for the first date too, but the second time she didn't give any resistance.
Is she playing hard to get?
2007-03-03 11:04:08 · 7 answers · asked by Happy G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I asked this before but didn't get many answers and most of the ones that I did get where not answers at all, just non-sense.
2007-03-03 11:05:22 · update #1
I don't think she is playing hard to get at all. Maybe she just isn't as interested in you as you thought she would be.
2007-03-03 11:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by I'm Michael Jackson BAD!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that she really was working the first time, and the second time ...Perhaps you forcing a kiss on her the first date has her skiddish a tad...Perhaps she isn't used to someone being so forward and pushy. It may not have anything to do with "playing hard to get"...but could be with her standards and upbringing to be Proper not hop in the sack on the first or second date...Sounds like she has class and isn't out for a joy ride. If you "play your cards right" you may just land yourself a proper woman* Be kind, sincere, NO GAMES and Honest...You might be onto something special* GOODLUCK*
2007-03-03 11:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no to be honest, its called having a life and job. if she was this way on the first date then she is this way period. she may have a flexible schedule, but you still have to go to work.
i wouldnt change my schedule that early into it either
however...there may be a certain amount of playing hard to get, yes....but thats what makes it interesting right? because here you are wondering where she is and what shes doing.....give it a couple more days, its still really new
2007-03-03 11:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by nonyerbusiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if she wanted to JUST hug u, u should have just stuck to that...u prob sacred her off. no offense u sound a lil pushy leave her alone for a while like talk to her still alot but maybe in a week ask her out
2007-03-03 11:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by socchick814 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i woudlnt say so. I bet shes just seeing how far you would go for her. Shes trying to see if ur really worth it. Let some time pass, you'll see some changes.
2007-03-03 11:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by marioluna74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she's not playing hard to get. No means no. Leave the ball in her court and see what she does. If she doesn't contact you, move on.
2007-03-03 11:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by Trillium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not really sure since i dont personnally know da gurl
its possbile
one thing u could do is do the exact thing she doin,
maybe she will eventually start tryin 2 see u more
atleast that wat i probably would do
2007-03-03 11:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by jaye3rd89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋