will I ever resolve my problems?

Question

I am currently suffering from depression on meds and waitiiing for a councilling appointment. My problems go back years. my father used to sit me in front of the kitchen clock for hours when I was six and rap my nuckles every time I got the time wrong. when I was nine I spent the entire summer holidays at the dining room table unable to learn my times tables. If I laughed during dinner I was put in the pantry to eat, or the corner of the kitchen I remember even having to go and eat outside in the garden.If I disobeyed the rules I was beaten with the slipper and left in my bedroom. my mum became ill when I was 14 I was the only girl so I had too help look after my little brothers that wasnt a problem to me. I married at 21 and had 3 children all beautiful little angelsbut my husband didnt want to be a dad with responsibilities he just wanted anather mother. he became violent in drink and even tried ti

Answer 1

No. There is no-one out there who is totally problem free. People encounter problems all the time. The meaning of life itself may be about working on problems and trying to improve things.

That you have 3 children is a wonderful starting position. From your experience you can give them so much.

Answer 2

Hi, firstly, I am not shore what meds you are on but, thats probably what is making you depressed, there are natural ways to help you deal with what has happen, I am sorry for what has happen to you, I would be seeing a counsellor first, I dont like medication at all, seriously, ask yourself how they have helped you so far, do they make you happy, do they make you feel good, please go to your local chemist and ask them if they have herbal tablets for depression, energy, at least try these.
I think you should leave your husband, or give him an ultimatum you went through hell growing up, your kids dont need to go thro that. Put yourself first with the kids, dont make the same mistake I did, I stayed with my kids father, because I didnt want them to grow up without there father, but that reason is not good enough, the only reason you would stay is if he changed.
Well good luck and I hope I have helped....
Stay Strong....

Answer 3

You need to go to a psychotherapist, get on the right meds and/or go to a counselor and talk out your issues. You are not alone, lots of people have had simmilar issues to deal with. With the right counselor and work on your part you will resolve your issues.

Answer 4

in case you adore the guy (dutch) the merely selection (in my opinion) is to ask him if he ought to love you decrease back. 2 responses: a million.If he responds functional. Then its performed - provide up your bf admit to him Youre no longer in love with him, why conflict through (both). 2.If he responds unfavourable then the different choise is to miss him and examine out once extra to love the fellow who already seems to love you (community wealthy guy), admit him you talked to his dutch pal and also you're over it. besides it truly is how i'd manage it today. playstation . You fell in love with yet another guy. Are You certain? even as once you get to carry close him better. Do you imagine you'll sense a similar way? besides Love nevertheless must be mutual, seems there is none in both guidelines You appeared. indirectly you dont have a lot to loose. you do not love your present day boyfriend (no longer something to loose (except milions and gold). the guy you're in Love (dutch guy) at present doesn't look to love You. wish it helps, carry in there :)

Answer 5

Hello K8,
Bottom line is: There's no easy answer. Can I recommend a free counseling service to you? go to peaceplusprogramdotcom
Take care,
Vince