he is so sweeet, but he wont answer ANYTHING!!!he is to afraid he is going to do something i dont want him to. i can simply ask him what kind of drink he wants at a resturant and he will say 'um i dont care,what do you want me to drink?' it annoys me SO BAD .. i end up yelling at him.he is always tring to do what i want him to and he never does anything hiself.
2007-03-03 11:01:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should talk to him. Most likely the reason he is doing it is to please you so tell him that it is not pleasing you and that u wish he would just make his own decisions at answer stuff. Communication is key! Good luck! :)
2007-03-03 11:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by *Mariah* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh! I had the same problem before. Then they feel bad because you're doing the same thing they were trying to avoid, getting you upset. Let him know that you're interested in what he's interested and in him. Let him know that you are not trying to shape him and that you like him for being himself. When he does answer something, even if he doesn't notice, compliment it, or say really? Get interested in it. I mean you're with him for a reason right? =) Hopefully I helped.
2007-03-03 19:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by Kunggpao 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yelling at him won't solve any problems. That will just make him upset and less likely to open up. Just sit down with him and let him know nicely how his behavior is making you feel. If you're honest things should work out.
And if he agrees, don't expect him to change in one night. It takes a lot to change your habits/personality. Just be patient and let him know you support him.
2007-03-03 19:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by predawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he has issues. The best thing is to probably stop yelling at him when he will not decide. Talk to him tell him to man up or back off.
2007-03-03 19:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by mundo808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get a spine(in a nice way).. Tell him you want him to be the man in the relationship.. Sounds like your taking his role.
2007-03-03 19:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha i do that a lot >.> but dont be mad, he is just trying to be polite and let you make decisions. he is letting you wear the pants in the relationship. if you hate it talk to him.
2007-03-03 19:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and talk to him, say you trust him, and that he should be more open around you.
2007-03-03 19:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by marya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him what you just said to hundreds of thousands of strangers J/P
2007-03-03 19:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by avenger3692000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he trying to be on ur goodside all the time. talk to him
2007-03-03 19:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by Make Love Not War! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋