Note this is a fantasy and hasn't happened (yet). I'm wearing a mini skirt, stocking and suspenders and the wife does me up the wrong 'un with a strap on. At 21, I'd be horrified by such a thought, but now I'm 35, it seems quite appealing. Is there anything unusual about that? What's yours?
2007-03-03 10:57:33 · 23 answers · asked by drcswalker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're all being very coy about your own fantasies. Would be interested in hearing some (as I'm sure other readers would be too)
2007-03-03 11:09:08 · update #1
what you have as your fantasy might be strange to others the same as theirs might be strange to you,everybody likes different things,and i`m not telling you mine but it involves the same sex and i`m totally straight!!
2007-03-03 11:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't fancy the skirt, stockings, and such, but for years I wanted my wife to give my rear a good pounding with a strapon. She thought it was pretty weird at first, but I've been persisitent about it and we have experimented some together (we're both 49 now, been married 25+ years, and this has been a growing fantasy of mine for maybe 8-10 years). If your relationship is strong and she's willing to please you, share this with her at a good moment. We have a Feeldoe double dildo that I bought for this purpose, and in the Feeldoe group in Yahoo, I posted some of my fantasy letters. Have a look over there.
Although we haven't yet gotten to my ultimate fantasy, which his her doing me doggy style, I have straddled her and it's been some of the best sex we ever had. Amazing, hot, and afterward we laugh some about it, but it only brings us closer because she is willing to do that for me.
2007-03-04 04:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by newbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever takes your fancy i suppose. I mean, at the end of the day if it's something you want to do and your wife agrees to go along with it, then there's no harm in it. I don't really think there are any strange fantasys i want to act out, one thing i do like is when me and my fella are in bed , i love it when he talks really dirty to me. Other than that i'm quite shy in the bedroom department although i am willing to try things my fella suggests. After all, how do you know what you will or will not like until you try it. Your fantasy is abit out there but hey!, thats why they are called fantasies, some people are lucky enough to beable to act them out.
2007-03-04 03:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah at 35 no idea is really that weird any more, even if you've had a fairly conventional life.
i haven't had that particular fantasy, or anything in quite that genre, but hey. My friend is an A&E doc; he digs fruit, veg and kitchen implements out of anuses regularly. This is not because people sit down accidentally on worktops.
2007-03-03 11:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by wild_eep 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
hey - as long as u enjoy that fantasy, then why worry ? it's your life. as for taking it further, well, u'd need to discuss that one with your wife !!! my fantasies tend to change on a regular basis - depending on what mood i'm in..... sometimes i fantasise about being dominated, and other times i'm the one who's being the dominate one....... lol - not going into details i'm afraid, i like to keep my fantasies between me & my boyfriend.
2007-03-03 11:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that fantasy is more common than men will admit.Any legal act done between consenting adults that does not hurt anyone permanently is ok.Have fun:)
2007-03-03 11:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some ppl like doing it with animals so this isnt THAT BAD
jus experiement-- u only live once if ur wife accepts then ur lucky and u shod go for it--try start at the minimum and warm her up to it tho--becos she wod be quite shocked
2007-03-03 11:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing unusual about fantasising and showing a willingness to experiment as long as both parties are happy and no one is getting hurt.
I couldn't put my fantasies on here for fear of being reported!!! lol
2007-03-03 11:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 05:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual maturity is something that we acquire throughout our lives.
It is one of the great anomalies in our society that we allow the sexually immature to pass judgement on those of us who are just beginning to understand our sexuality.
In short...I suggest we leave the wankers to it.
2007-03-03 11:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋