my mom is VERY anoying she comes in my room every 5 seconds, she always pays so much atention to me and sometimes thats not good, i try to tell her to stop and she doesn't listen i think its becouse im an only child, what should i do?
2007-03-03 10:51:29 · 13 answers · asked by sandyleesand 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I really think you need to talk with her about it. You aren't going to get the solution on the computer. The solution will come in a face to face talk with your mom.
You don't say how old you are but it really doesn't matter. Your mother loves you. I'm sure if she understands that you want and need some privacy she will give you some.
It is hard for some moms to let go. It sounds as if you are at the age where she needs to start.
Maybe if talking doesn't work you could print your question along with the answers you have gotten and show it to her.
2007-03-04 08:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you're wrong it's not because you're an only child. I have an only child and I don't go into her room every 5 seconds...never did. So come up with a better theroy while you're figureing out how to stop whining.
2007-03-03 19:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
All moms get on their kids nerves at times. That's what moms are for: to get on your nerves. I suggest to talk to her and specifically ask her how you feel about it (communicate). If you just tell her to stop it, than she is going to do it even more. Real communication is telling exactly how you feel and why you feel that way. I am sure that your mom will listen attentively, give both of you the opportunity to communicate.
2007-03-07 10:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every 5 seconds r u serious??? i guess she wants you to know she cares good luck tell her she don't need to come in that much and that if you need any thing you will let her know and don't stay in your room all day go out for fun every once in a while to spend just one on one with her maybe she just wants to be close to you and she thinks that will help
2007-03-06 22:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by just wandering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you??
I'm sure she is just worried about you and wants to make sure you are making good decisions. Give her a break. Go lock yourself in the bathroom if you want 10mins instead of 5 sec LOL well good luck.
2007-03-03 21:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl68132 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie...give your mom a break..she loves and adores you.When you get bigger you will understand especially when you have kids of your own. I for instance lost my mom when i was 24-i felt the same way you did when i was a teen...and therefore only had a GREAT relationship with her from 19-24. i WIsh i hadnt been so mean and hateful to her as a teen.
2007-03-03 18:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by tokenwhtgrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously every 5 seconds?
Tell her that you need your space but you do want to spend time with her just not every moment of the day.
2007-03-03 18:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First how old are you? I know how you feel that is how my mom was until I left her house because she tried to mingle in my life as a teenager and she always claim to be right and I am always wrong! I feel you Good Luck!
2007-03-03 18:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by adri012980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say your mother love you a lot,an by her looking in on you she makeing sure you ok, ,,you know you could fall, are have dizzie spell, an if she did not look in , you could even die,,, , so before you an all the other kids start comeing down on you moms an dads, try to see their side,,,an wait tilll you have kids, then you know what being a mom are dad realy is
2007-03-03 19:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she does that because u are a only child she has nothing to do but cheak on u
u should be happy because some parents don't even care about their children
2007-03-03 19:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by ryshekia_1994 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋