In MOST cases girls have to be in love or have feelings for a guy before doing it, but guys will hook up with a girl if they are bored.
Why is this??
2007-03-03 10:45:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I disagree. I know plently of women who can separate love and sex, myself included. Its just usually the ability to do that gives women the nickname, slut or whore or skank.
But the guys get high-fives for sleeping around. Somehow its a sign of pure masculinity apparently when the quarterback can sleep with the whole cheerleading squad before mid-terms.
Thats BS...
2007-03-03 10:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥Mrs SSG B♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are visual/physical beings, girls are emotional beings. Of course girls can love sex and guys do have feelings, but I think this is kind of defines the difference between men and women.
When guys have sex, they like how it feels. Being in love, changes is it to making love rather than having sex. This intensifies the feeling in many ways.
When girls have sex, she feels that the guy is giving every part of him to her. She takes away more than just the physical feeling. A girl can have sex without being emotionally connected.....I guess that comes with repitition? I don't know I am not one of those girls.
2007-03-03 18:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly thing it's more upbringing than anything else. I've only been with two women who were not from this country and they both seemed to totally lack this hangup, which I have NEVER found to be the case with American women. I think it's because our culture is so uptight about sex and because girls get fed this whole line of bullshit about how they're supposed to save themselves for that perfect love from a young age. Other cultures are less uptight and their women seem to have no aversion to a friendly roll in the hay, without being slutty in any way. I'm sure it varies by country; Brit chicks seem to be somewhere in between.
2007-03-03 18:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in general guys can easily draw the line before love and sex since they tend to be classified as very sexual beings, but in my life I have known more guys who have had more feelings for girls they have slept with than the girls, because the girls had moure doubts about the relationship and where it would go. I even have a guyfriend, and as a "stereotypical jerk" he is sometimes, I have seen him CRY over girls he has had physical relations with, telling me that he felt "used". I think a few girls might even feel pressured to be in love with someone they slept with for fear of being a "slut" even in today's society since females are told to be a certain way and to be emotional before they get physical. So it definitely goes both ways. I
2007-03-03 18:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones dude! Testosterone is a powerful thing. For me the proof was a woman getting a sex change to a man who said she couldn't believe how she was thinking about sex 24-7 and she never had before.
2007-03-03 18:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by MissWong 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be surprised on how many girls do the deed more than guys!!!!!!!!! they (girls) just dont tell everybody every time! girls get around just as much if not more!!!!
2007-03-03 18:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by EDDIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
caus were pervs and hump anything that moves
2007-03-03 18:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by battey4u 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
many girls do also.
2007-03-03 18:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋