I used to be attractive but ive had alot that has gone on at the moment! I used to get like this everynow and then cause of my ex and i made myself feel good by having my hair done as i would feel someone new but now my hair is damaged! Im with someone new who ive been with a while! I just cant help feeling unattractive and i cant solve it by having my hair done! Whats the best thing i could do?
2007-03-03 10:05:03 · 17 answers · asked by playgirl_bena 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Just wear your hair nice and long, wavy and curly! Get new curvy jeans and miniskirts! You go girl bring out the tigress in you! Grrrrrrrrrrr =<)
2007-03-03 10:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Grandmaster Adler von Chase 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you are no longer attractive ...you may be suffering from the Samson sydrome....(powerless when Delilah cut off his hair ).....Many people feel disempowered when their hair is not the way they like it....especially Leos! Therefore, do something with your hair...even if it means going out and getting a gorgeous wig!
Don't forget that you are always more atttractive when you are single. It is an instinctive thing that people will always go to extra trouble to look attractive when they are seeking a mate. BUT...it isn't just how you look...its much more about the sexuality you exude...that comes from your interior not your exterior. If you want to feel sexy ...treat yourself to some pampering. Treat your toenails. Have your teeth scaled and polished. Wax your legs and buy some silky underwear and new sheets. Burn candles, play music instead of watching tv and read Lady Chatterley's Lover. Create the right environment for yourself to feel attractive.
Good luck.
2007-03-03 18:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your hair is damaged at the moment, how about visiting a salon to get a hair treatment? Start actively trying to help it repair :) When you are being proactive you will start feeling better! Why not treat yourself to a facial as well and maybe a make-over? All this sort of thing will help you feel a bit more confident and attractive again!
2007-03-03 18:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pamper yourself. That always makes me feel better:
1. Find some inexpensive product to put in your bath similar to baby oil so you can soak in it and it will make your skin very soft. (hot water strips oils from your skin, so if you have dry skin this will also help to rehydrate it). Light candles with soothing scents to create ambiatic lighting, and relax you. Find your favorite CD, and play it on a CD player in your bathroom. Grab a book, and starting soaking. A glass of wine, or a box of chocolates help too. This really helps me feel better about myself because when I get out of the bath I feel relaxed, refreshed, and clean, which makes me feel good about myself.
2. Give yourself a manicure/pedicure while you watch your favorite movie. Try to go for soft, nuetral colors. That way, your feet/hands are gorgeous /and/ you're entertained! If you want you can snack on something that you like, but is low on fat/carbs so you won't feel guilty later.
3. Every morning and/or evening, have a face cleansing ritual that you perform. I normally wash my face with Dove soap (would work like an exfoliater), and then put lotion on my face. This helps me feel presentable, and like I am caring for myself (similar, probably, to how you feel when you get your hair done).
4. For your damaged hair, check out some of Pantene's products, which you can buy at any store that sells shampoo. It is amazing, and you start to see results almost immidiately! I believe they have a formula to help reverse/prevent damage to hair.
2007-03-03 18:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, It's not your looks that is bothering you, it's your self esteem. I bet you are just as pretty as you always were. I have worked at a school for 22 years and I always tell the children that they have to love themselves. I tell them to look into the mirror and find something nice to say about that person everyday. If you have good self esteem you'll think you look good in old ragged jeans with no make up. Try it Honey, it works.
2007-03-03 18:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Pearl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If You give attractive vibe off You will become attractive and if that dose not work then watch TLC for some hints. Why don't you talk to the person you have been going out with?
2007-03-03 18:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by anna s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm quite sure your still attractive. Being beautiful starts with the perception of yourself. If you see yourself as beautiful, then others will definitely see. Especially your significant other. I hope this helps!
Good luck!
2007-03-03 18:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by ~Fire-Princess~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting a makeover. Getting a makeover always helps me when I am down. Hope you feel better before too much longer.
2007-03-03 18:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find your self worth, i know it is important for every woman to like the way she looks, but your beauty is determined by you and only you. love who you are and then when you have a beautiful persona it will make you 20 times more attractive!
2007-03-03 18:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by OpenMePoet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hair does not make people attractive! I have crazy hair, black and red, and I'm still gazed at, and many people talk to me! You should find your inner beauty! :D
~*~StardustFaerie~*~
2007-03-03 18:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by ★☆キザ☆★ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋