Im really confortable with my boyfriend and feel 100% sure that im ready for sex
but I would feel even more confortable if I was drunk for my first time
will this ruin my first experience or make it feel better?
any answers would be helpful
2007-03-03 09:54:45 · 21 answers · asked by apples_and_pears123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it'll ruin it....I think you should wait, you and your boyfriend may not stay together...would you want to break up after you've given your virginity up??? Believe me, I don't think it be worth it!!! The first time should really be saved for that truly special moment...after you're married and also if you're drunk the first time, better use protection. Unless you want to get pregnant.......you need to consider what it is that you'd really value most in yourself....(Unless you want your boyfriend to brag on about it afterwards, then you'll be dubbed as a slut by all the other kids) think about it.........
2007-03-03 10:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Rmprrmbouncer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a commitment and sex produces children very often even when people think they have planned ahead. There are numerous awful diseases that you can get and you should research that fully first. It is better to have a commitment before you have sex and the best commitment is marriage.
Being drunk would be stupid and the fact that you are thinking about it would indicate that you are NOT ready for it. Drinking just makes people act stupid and feel less.
Peace
2007-03-03 18:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by islaam4naas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may regret the whole drunk the first time thing. Maybe a shot or two to loosen up the nerves a little bit. But if you aren't of a legal drinking age, I would suggest finding a friend who is prescribed xanax or steal a couple of your mom's valium.
(what? I just figured if the kid was underage and talking about drinking and having sex, I might as well let her know which pills are good too.)
Oh yeah, don't get too f-d up that you forget the condoms. ALWAYS use protection.
2007-03-03 18:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by Alex W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're really comfortable and felt 100% sure that you were ready for sex, you wouldn't even be asking whether or not you needed to be drunk. Having sex for the first time should be a beautiful experience and something that you are truly sure about and prepared for, not something that you need to numb your senses for by being drunk.
2007-03-03 18:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by stseukn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are drunk you probably will not remember having sex you'll wake up with a hang over (bad headache and feel sick to your stomach) The best way to enjoy sex is when you are sober then you can remember feeling good pleasure for the first time Do not ruin it by getting drunk cherish it as a memory while you are sober
2007-03-03 17:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by Melody-Lynn 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you think you have to get drunk to have sex for your first time...I wouldn't do it...If he's special, wait until you are definately for sure and comfortable with it...and yes, you want to feel it and know what you are doing....especially your first time! Do you want to look back 10 years from now and not be able to remember a thing about your first sexual experience? hopefully you will make the right decision..
2007-03-03 17:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by cutegirlin_tn 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't if your drunk you will most likely forget some if not all of what happens. plus the first time is awkward enough why make it more so? if you are drunk you are more likely to forget the condom also, you will be risking a unplanned pregnancy. i don't know how old you are but are you ready for that.
2007-03-03 18:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by nbatch2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh,I suggest against it,though it's your life.I'd rather remember it.I also don't see why you'd need to be drunk if you were really ready.I also think it's kind of tacky.I'm not saying your 1st time should be like the movies,but I'd want it to be a little special.Plus, with my experience,drunk girls don't make me think "sexy".They make me think "easy".
2007-03-03 18:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by cultureslum 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you can't do it sober...your not ready!!! if he's that ugly get a new bf! but in all honesty(jokes aside) be sober you'll make better decisions (in case you change you mind & make sure you protected against pregnancy & stds)
save the drinking for after your sexually active to put a lil kinkyness into it ....but wait till later to get all freaky
2007-03-03 18:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by glam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get to drunk. You want to remember you're first time. Just a little buzzed perhaps to take the edge off.
2007-03-03 18:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by jimbobob 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋