im the only person that thinks everything in nature is beautiful, and im very artistic. i love this guy very much, i havent seen him for 2 years hes my first love and when people looks at his face they just say see cuteness but when i look at his face i just see thats the same face i first fell in love with. people say i need to be more "freaky" and lose my virginity to him, but i said im only 13,and chill with him for now then they said im corny, i would love to marry him one day like when im 24. the thing is people my age dont understand is sex is not always love theyre completely different things. i prefer to die for him. dont worry im doing good in school also. lol. What you people think?
2007-03-03 09:13:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is not always having sex is the answer if they love someone i think they just jealous of you cause you have a pasionate love to that guy but i know it is hard for you youre only 13 just hang on there
2007-03-03 09:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by candy_cola11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should lose your virginity to him if your not ready and you're so young..im artistic as well and i see things in nature as beautiful and cool. people wonder why i hang out with all different kinds of ppl because i see their personality over apperance..be "freaky" if you'd like but if this guy loves you for who you are then why change..
hope this helps..
2007-03-03 17:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're way to serious about this boy. Just relax and enjoy being 13. Don't think about having sex right now or about getting married. There are so many things to do and enjoy before you settle down. Enjoy this stage. Enjoy being a kid.
2007-03-03 17:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by karmen82us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are a very artistic person. dont let your friends pressure you into doing something you dont want to do. when it comes down to it, follow your heart. if the time is right, you will know. but do not let him take advantage of you. some guys live by the saying "why buy the cow when the milk is free". just take that into consideration before you start getting to that point.
2007-03-03 17:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by melelisi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on with you school focus. The feelings you have are common among girls of your age. There are many flowers in the world. You might wait until you get to college before thinking about committing to marriage-prospect relationship.
Don't be fooled by those who have lost their virginity already. You will soon find out that many girls who have lost their innocence wish they didn't. Stay focused.
2007-03-03 17:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by Life Dynamics 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Officer Larry.
2007-03-03 17:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by wigginsray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are very mature for your age, I too see the beauty in things. Enjoy life, and being a teen, don't grow up too quick, have fun. I am glade you are doing good in school, keep up the good work, because you are doing it for you.
2007-03-03 17:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur good the way u r right now.... just stay boyfriend and girlfriend.... dont need to rush sex..... its nice u love nature....we need more people like u..... u seem like those perfect people that dont exist..... lets hope u dont get corrupted on the way to becoming a beautiful woman......
just stay the way u r and care little about what others say.... do what u like not what they want....
2007-03-03 17:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel right not because your friends say you should give it up. and you are too young to be doing such things. you also run the risk of getting pregnant or a std so in my humble opinion screw your friends and wait until you are older and are 1000% sure that you can handle the consequence of your actions
2007-03-03 17:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by fairyros2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi T_Claire,
Most people don't understand you (or me) because you're a sane
individual who uses her head. When you're rational, "normal"
people shriek in disbelief, because THEY don't think in rational
terms. You have a love, and you have a plan. Don't change just
to satisfy those people who THINK they know everything---THEY
DON'T !! Keep the faith, and your future can be guaranteed.
2007-03-03 17:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋