I have xtreme shyness. i can barely talk to my cousins that i c 1 time a year. I want to talk 2 this guy but can't wat should i do. PULEEES HELP!!!!
2007-03-03 09:08:43 · 16 answers · asked by giddygirl401 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went through the same thing. I just said hi, and now I'm going to say hi again if I have the chance. After you say hi or something really simple like that, the next time you talk to him it'll be easier.
It's hard for me to talk to anyone that isn't in my family... I have social anxiety/phobia...
2007-03-03 15:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Death.Note.fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, shyness is kind of normal in that situation. See, if you don't want to do anything stupid you can just ask a boy thats your friend to go and be friends with that boy you like. Your friend can say everything that he noticed about him (interests, foods, etc). If you do ever get a chance to get near this boy you like, you can bring up a subject that your friend found about about him. You can start with that, it might work. I've noticed this had many different things that could happen though. Good luck.
2007-03-03 09:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by theajosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a cute little note and tell him to meet you somewhere so you guys can talk! Everything will be fine,just go with what you feel
2007-03-03 09:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afarid. i am realy shy too. and i have a boyfriend now. i got through this with my friends.start talking to one of your friends that is a boy, then start talking to their friends. sooner or later, you'll work up the currage to talk to the guy. i worked up my courage this way and it ended up that the guy i wanted to talk to actually had a crush on me. now we are dating and still best friends. good luck.
2007-03-03 09:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by board 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no EXACTALY wat ur goin threw.. um i wuld jsut try talking to other people that ud ont know first and then wen u start to come out of it start talking to him! or u could also just make urself say somethin. jsut like a simple "hi" would be good for a little bit then sooner or later either he will talk to ya or u should..
hope it helps!
2007-03-03 09:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Josh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could use your friends to talk to him. Like bring up a subject you know he will be able to talk about and he might join in. Or you could just ask him what he thinks about it. thats what I do. I use the people around me to talk to..yea
2007-03-03 09:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by OxiHEARTMUSiCxO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a girl...figure out a way to talk to him. If you think you're attractive he'll probably like that...you'll get along and your lives will be better for it. If you don't feel that you're attractive...work on that first.
2007-03-03 09:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by Robert S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get over your xtreme shyness and go up to the boy and say hello how are you today? if he says fine thanz, say gdgd then i will speak to you later. ok or if you fancy him ask for his msn addy and then ask him out on msn. they like it that way ok?
2007-03-03 09:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by singer.girl29 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him or u will never know and it will drive u nuts and let ur friend ask so u won't feel shy or write him a letter
2007-03-03 09:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write a note to him. They hate it when ur friends have to speak for you.
2007-03-03 09:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by Pinay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋