them before you move on to someone else. It's not that easy.
2007-03-03 09:00:19 · 12 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good question....maybe a few months or so...
been their myself.......
2007-03-03 09:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If indeed this is the perfect person, maybe this is not the perfect person for you. If this girl was meant for you she would be available. Think of how you would feel if your girlfriend had someone pursuing her. Keep in mind things happen for a reason, this girl may be available later in life, or what you think is perfect may not actually be. So many times we think we know what we want or who we want, then later we find out why we could not have that person, because there may be others plans for you. Be a friend to her, but don't pursue her or put all of your energy into her.
2007-03-03 17:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by desperateforanswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay this is kinda hard. Actually I know where your coming from. It's never easy thinking or just knowing you have found that perfect person for you and waiting for them to realize it or just to have them. It sucks! One of my best friends in the whole entire world I started likeing him more then friends and thought that we were so perfect for each everyone I knew and he knew thought the same thing. Cause we just clicked. One problem though he had a girlfriend who was also my friend. It sucked and after awhile I got tired of waiting and tried to break them up. One thing don't ever do that. In the end I not only lost his trust and respect but his friendship and the same with his girlfriend(which now they are broken up). It's taken a long time to gain that all back. And I'm still working on it. No one can really give you a time period or say do this this and this then give up. Cause there isn't one. It's up to you, how long can you wait. Is she worth waiting for and is it worth possibly losing a friendship if things don't work out with you far as bf and gf? If you don't care how long it take and the answer to the next to are yes then for you there's all the time in the world. But you have to be absolutely positive that she is the one for you. She is the perfect person for you and that it's worth maybe losing a friend and waiting for. Because if it isn't then you have to let go now and let your heart start to heal its self. You got one thing right though it's not that easy sitting on the side line seeing her happy but wanting to the one making them happy. Ultimately though it's up to you. How long can you wait? Is all that may happen and your going through worth waiting for. Is all of it worth possibly losing a friend or someone special to you over if you to do go out and it doesn't work. And last but not least is she right for you? If all it those are yes's and you can wait forever then go for it. But you do have two things to protect while your waiting. Your heart and your friendship with her. It's up to you and GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-03 17:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by Gretchen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not easy,but if you really like the person and think you two will have a good chance together someday then well its worth the wait
2007-03-03 17:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you don't wait... You live your life and have fun and when the time comes, then sure it's your chance. Other then that go clubbing and party on dude!! life is too short to wait around for your true love... Ya heard?
2007-03-03 17:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one and happens alot, me i would say something to her just to let her know how you feel but also keep your options open. Dont let anyone else slide by you because you are stuck trippin over this one person. Dont let it consume your life!
2007-03-03 17:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by TOOTS0822 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you wait around at all? He's not available. Move on.
2007-03-03 17:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by TopLessOne 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was u i would move on in a second lots of singles r available u n STOP TRIPPIN
2007-03-03 17:04:13 · answer #8 · answered by mr_kknight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say to yourself, that this person is unavailable and meet single people. End of story.
2007-03-03 17:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Alyssa Macey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait......hang out with others....just keep an eye on that situation...
2007-03-03 17:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by Emily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does that person even know you're waiting? i wouldn't move on until u talk to them, let em know how u feel....then decide once u know how that person feels about u. its just her boyfriend not her husband.... that's wut dating is all about, finding the right one. :)
2007-03-03 17:05:12 · answer #11 · answered by Kimber Gem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋