We broke up in late September - early October. I still wanted to be friends but that is impossible. So after getting some info from a friend about my ex's behavior I burned the bridge for good. I found out that she was sleeping with a guy who I thought was a friend of mine. When here and I were together I had a gut feeling something was going on but wasn't sure. I know its all in the past but why do I still feel hurt or is it the fact of that I thought I would be her last lover for awhile? I hate liars.
2007-03-03 08:52:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm maybe it wouldnt bother you if you had someone else or maybe youre still wondering how you and she couldve fixed things and still be together. maybe you left on good terms...you still wanted to be friends. I dont want to be friends with my ex hus. I dont care what he does as long as its not in front of the kids...worrying about them not myself. You have to make a personal decision that she isnt your last lover despite your thoughts...make new thoughts. peace
2007-03-03 09:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to maintain a friendship with someone you once loved. Not to say it is impossible, but hard. In time, your heart will heal. It is hard to see it now, but count it a blessing that you are not together now. If she can be in a relationship with your friend, then what else is she capable of? Certain Bridges you don't cross, and you don't sleep with your ex's friend. You will be fine, start dating again............
2007-03-03 17:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what when we love someone immensely we completely trust on that person .we spend precious moments of our life but when it breaks off in that case even we r completely broke.we think she cheated me and we tend to forget her and try to be a normal friends.in this we cheat ourselves and when that same person as u say sleeps with someone else we feel hurted that is because you loved her very much and a few days back she was your,s. a sugestion to u is that pl try to find a new mate and start living ur new life.
2007-03-03 17:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by vish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate liars too! I know it's hard to forget about her, but you know she's not worth it. She have slept with your friend!(or ex friend). You should find another love, and move on. I know it hurts, but you should't even show them that you care. Oh yeah, and your friend? do you really think he's your friend? he betrayed you too. Just forget about them and move on with your own life. Don't even show them that you're hurt. You could even act like they don't even exist.
2007-03-03 17:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by rain ;';';';'; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you were part of her and she was part of you , when you two slept together, now what is parrt of you left you and is sleeping with other man...it hurts...that is why sex before marriage wrong, even though people nowadays won't accept it.
So my advice whatever done is done, just don't do the same mistake again with your next lover
2007-03-03 16:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a new girl and forget about her.
2007-03-03 16:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋