bf going away in the summer hoildays for 6 weeks,ill be depressed?

Question

me and my bf are both 18 and we have been togther for 1 year now.well last year my bf whent to china for 5 weeks to see hes family and i got so depressed i just stayed in my room for 3 days,i cryed like every 3 min and i just wouldnt do anythink.my friend tryed to cheer me up but didnt work.well he told me just recently he has to go again in this year summer holidays for this time 6 weeks to see hes family.I havent got the cash to pay for the flight for this year and my parents dont either.but when he goes i know ill be like i was last year.my friends always have alot to do in the summer holidays like revsion for exams and go see there family.i dunno what todo cause ill be depressd and last year i tryed lots of things to try get me less depressed and it didnt work

thing is i only get money from ema that what the goverment gives you when ur still in education.i get £30 a week.and £15 pounds each week out of the £30 got to traverling to the training centure.and the rest i save up for weekend out with my friends or my bf or anythink else i need like make up or new cloths.i dont have time cause i need to get a passport and thats £60.

Answer 1

its six weeks, deal with it, try nine years and counting!

Answer 2

I know what its like when you're apart. My bf and I had a Long Distance relationship for the first 2 years we were going out. We would only see each other about 4 times a year. I know its tempting to lock yourself in your room and feel sorry for yourself but the only person thats going to be affected is you.
Don't pressure him to stay because its his family and you can't make him choose between them or you.
You'll just have to find something to do for those 6 weeks like i did. Find a job or take up a new hobby. Anything to keep your mind off your boyfriend. Thats the only way i coped for the months on end not seeing my bf. Just try not to think about him.
Take care and best of luck!

Answer 3

Oh, come on! You may not be able to afford the flight to China, but surely you can afford a holiday? you can get great stuff on the internet so cheaply.
What a waste to sit in your room; don't put your life on hold because your b/f has gone away; you MUST start to develop your own interests, for your own sake. It's not healthy to relay on one person so much for our happiness.
think about how much you will have to talk about when he comes back; and if it were me, I would use the opportunity to catch up with all my girlfriends and have some girly nights out.

Answer 4

i can totally understand you..
u will just miss him every mins when he's not around
but u no..u r 18, and u haf to be tough and independent
be strong girl!
and there's a budget airline: oasis hk which flies from uk to hong kong, and then u can take some cheap airlines to go to china
hope u find it useful n try to go out with fds!
dun waste ur summer!
how many summer holidays r u gonna haf in ur life?

Answer 5

Are you ok? Why don't you go with him. Quit feeling sorry for yourself and go get a job. You can do it! There is still time to earn the money for the flight.

Answer 6

I'd suggest getting a busy job, like waitressing, that way your productive, make alot of money and are more focused on other things besides your boyfriend.

Answer 7

You will have to keep busy to try and take your mind off him. Why dont you get a part time job.

Answer 8

try tk u mind of it get a job and plan sumting kol for wen he gets bk a suprise

Answer 9

dont pressure him to stay

Answer 10

=( i know how you feel...but what's your question?