so i like this guy who is in my class, we only started talking recently a bit. we're both shy so it's slow...but, we were put in groups to work and i know i'm with him next week just him and me for some homework. i want that time with us together to be a starter...what should i do/say, without sounding desperate, i want him to know i wanna hang out etc.
2007-03-03 08:48:47 · 16 answers · asked by . 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Goto a cofee house to do ur hmw, so u can enjoy a cup of coffee, chat and do homework......like coffee pub/coffee lounge....and that way you dont only have to concentrate about shcool, just be like "hey i know this nice place down the road, we should go there to do our homework, its a nice atmosphere and we can actually have food around us, unlike the library!" im sure he'll agree once he hears FOOD....and then at the end of night be like this was fun, apart from the hmw we should do this again!
2007-03-03 08:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by StyleDiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, if it is meant to be it will be. Don't do anything you don't feel confortable doing. Try to be a little flirty but not to much. Guys like the shy girl. They think it is somewhat of a challenge. But have fun with the homework.
2007-03-03 16:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you have been looking forward to studyin with him or whatever and flirt with him a little bit. Subtle little hand brushes or putting your knees together. Stuff like that and always smile and look him in the eyes.
2007-03-03 16:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by Fletcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds weird, but it works. PERPOSELY embarrass your self! It works! You both start laughing! then you say at the end, because I am positive he is just as nervous as you, say I would like to see you another time. How about Saturday night for dinner? Somethin like that. it WILL WORK! :P TRUST ME!
2007-03-03 16:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk about normal things like ex: What is your favorite class in school.
Then you get to the more complicated things like ex: who do you hang out with.
After get to the LOVE
2007-03-03 16:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to him, tell him your name, your interests, and listen to his also. Then maybe, like if you both like the Movies, you guys could go to the movies or sompin else :]
2007-03-03 16:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Nichole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play hard to get but alittle more obvious...or all u need 2 do is to go somewhere after skool write him notrs in class hint him on write a love letter not saying who its from...then c if he asks u...then say...oh i kno who it was some1 i kno!!!!
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2007-03-03 16:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by ecuaadorianprincess001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ways to flirt!
DO's:
Make eye contact.
Seem interested in what they say.
DO NOT:
Flutter eyelashes
Act stupid. Instead of "Oh, I know NOTHING about fly fishing!" try "So, you fly fish? You know, I gotta friend who fly fishes.."
Don't TRY to look sexy. Only works if you've already got him.
2007-03-03 16:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by serenityfan76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and be friendly, if he likes you and you get on you will naturally hang out.
2007-03-03 16:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thee best way tell him or write him a note or tell ur friend to ask him so if he turns u down u won't feel like crap face to face...good luck ! i am going through the same thing!
2007-03-03 16:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by jojo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋