going out to watch a band at a bar with his guy friend who ended up drunk and before he left his friend was out there having sex in the back of his car he had to tell the girl to get out of the car should i be mad at my boyfriend and think that he is like him? or should i think he was just out to have fun and was innoncent in his part because he called me and confessed later that he went the same night and was at my house in my bed the next morning when i come home from work what do you think and what you do about this situation ?
2007-03-03 08:38:35 · 12 answers · asked by poohbear27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to like hire a personal spy (like a friend or something) or go out with your boyfriend a LOT the next few weeks just to see what he does and if he says "Can I have some time with the guys alone?" then you know he's cheating.
Good luck! ;-)
2007-03-03 08:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I wouldn't necessarily think that your boyfriend would do the same thing - unless he was single, and then it wouldn't matter. He didn't cheat on you, and he's not the one who had sex in the back of his car.
But why did he lie to you about where he was going?
There's nothing wrong with going to a bar with guy friends and having a few drinks. Be careful that you're not being too controlling. He should be able to do this without having to lie.
2007-03-03 16:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by rainy_blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You boyfriend lied to you not good.
He confessed that he lied, better.
He has no control over how his friends act, and don't assume that he is the same way.
Let him know that the lie is what makes you not trust him, not the fact that his friend got drunk and had sex in the car.
If he lies again, kick him to the curb.
2007-03-03 16:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by ajtheactress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello poohbear2 now that could be a very hard thing to think about with out knowing the whole story with finding out what your boyfriend was actually doing himself if he was with another ladie or but if he wasnt with another ladie he wouldnt have done nothing wrong but he may have not about the sex part between his friend or the ladie but you should actually know the truth for sure if your boy friend is being honest with you
2007-03-03 16:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by haroldgardner62002006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shoodnt hate hm but u need 2 tell hm tht if he is goin 2 bring 1 of his friends 2 make sure tht they respect u bi not doin tht. then u need 2 talk 2 hm n tel hm how u wood feel if he ever did ne thing like tht.
2007-03-03 16:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by The Notorious 1! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, did he tell you the truth??? if he did, then MAybe!!! but if you found out he did from sum1 else then dump him. and if he does go out to have "fun" then h e shold take u with him.
2007-03-03 16:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by mr. tumnus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey wattup gal.i think u should give him a chance.cause if i was hiim,nd wat he was sayin is true,den ill be rly sad if u disown me n all....BUT,speak 2 him,hold his hands,nd looki him straight in d eyes nd tell him how u feel.nd if u catch him doin **** like dat,tell him its ova.exept u rly love him.cause love is a rly special thing.u can holla at me if u wanna.my e-mail address is diekolola_aderemi@yahoo.com
2007-03-03 16:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by lil slick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let his friend rune things for you 2.
2007-03-03 16:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to be more honest with you!
2007-03-03 16:44:07 · answer #9 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well why would he have to feel guilty if he didn't do anything. and boys will be boys. (think about it)
2007-03-03 16:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by briana11us2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋