well i really like this guy he is 2 years older than me and we really like each other:) but i know my parents will not approve this because he is related to me........ HE is my cousins son!!!!
so what do i do.???
do we keep on dating or should i forget about him......
i have tried to date other guys but i just can't....
i don't feel happy like when im with him........
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
2007-03-03 08:38:29 · 25 answers · asked by cristina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move to another country and make no contact!
2007-03-03 08:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jaroo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep, they are right... you have a problem. Do you want a 9 headed baby, or are you just a giant Springer fan? If you actually got your flip flops on and walked a little ways outside of the trailer park, you would see a whole new world full of guys that aren't related to you! Imagine that. Now, my instructions were simple. Get movin'.
2007-03-03 16:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Alex W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some may not think that that is a big deal but in truth MANY people do. u guys are blood and thats almost like DATING ur cousin or brother. stay friends but there are other great people out there that you arent related too directly.
2007-03-03 16:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is ok that he's two years older than you but it's pretty sick if you're dating some who is related to you.
2007-03-03 16:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by ilovetrack18 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that depends on alot of things, do you have the same last name?
your 3rd cousins, so it's legal.
how big is the community you live in, is it small and close so everyone would know that your cousins.
I guess you chouldn't let everyone else's opinion make you do what you don't want, but the cousin thing is kind of a weird area.
Also, do you like him like a boyfriend, or do you like him like a cousin?
2007-03-03 16:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by ***HDK*** 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there.... for starters your parents would NOT approve as you stated. There are over a BILLION other men on the planet, choose someone else.
2007-03-03 16:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by blackpus88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Family always stick together.... why take it to a different level? Things start to go wrong then you lose a boyfriend and a family member if not other family members.
2007-03-03 16:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by bwtiger0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel about him. It is hard not to like him since he is so wonderful. But if you are NOT OK to have retarded kids of your own, you should stop dating him. Talk to him to see what he has to say.
2007-03-03 16:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say yea, that's pretty bad. i don't think you should forget about him, because you seem to enjoy being around him, but i would try to drop any romantic feelings. it's only going to lead to a weird family problem and someone is going to get hurt pretty bad.
2007-03-03 16:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by homer1523 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Related? And you have to ask? Find someone in this great big world that isn't related to you by blood. That is just wrong!!
2007-03-03 16:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋