no details just that... how can i let go of someone who never really liked me in the first place
2007-03-03 08:32:46 · 9 answers · asked by confused07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we were seeing eachother for 5 months then he told all his friends he didnt like me... hit on my best friends... 2 days after we started dating he lied to me, he told me he had to be at his moms house at 6 and i went tohis house to say bye n he had a party goin on.. then my so called best friend went tothe party and fooled around with him. he said he never liked me he just kept me around so he didnt hurt my feelings. i liked him a lot and i trusted him until this.. so my question how do i let go of him
2007-03-03 08:46:32 · update #1
I'm in the same situation with my best friend. I told him how I felt about him, and he doesn't feel the same way about me. I agonized over it for months until one day he asked me if I realized that just because he doesn't love me the way that I want him to doesn't mean that he doesn't love me with all that he has. That's what finally helped me get over him, but it is definitely a timely process. Hopefully this helps a little bit with your situation, and good luck!
2007-03-03 08:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by shiningstar2525 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, for starters it is good that you reallies and accept that they was never yours. First part of solving a problem is acceptance that their is a PROBLEM.
Next, I would suggest that you just carry on as best you can with your life. Meet other people or get closer to the ones you already know.... Get closer is not an implication of Sexual nature...
2007-03-03 16:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by blackpus88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people touch us intellectually or emotionally all the time and we do the same whether the other is aware or not. our energies may or may not go without notice. our own breath affects the rosebush that grows near. if you love someone...that energy is now embeded in you...what you do with that energy....give it to someone else or put that energy into something else. peace
2007-03-03 16:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have all been here. I think the best thin gis just to be as harsh to yourself as possible, you know, really tell yourself they never cared about you anyway, then see them for what they really are. it's hard, but you will get through it.
2007-03-03 16:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if they never cared about you then dont worry about them. Move on you are wasting your time when you can be with someone that does care about you.
2007-03-03 16:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by Babygurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say i dont want to see u any more u are a cowerd
2007-03-03 16:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by Eve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else, it hurts
2007-03-03 16:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by TOOTS0822 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS HARD. YOUR GOING TO HAVE TO KEEP EVERY WAKING MOMENT BUSY. IT SUX BUT ITS TRUE WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT TIME DULLING THE PAIN
2007-03-03 16:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by capechic13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy they wasn't yours so they be gone u just got to forget
2007-03-03 16:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by asexyflirt22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋