2007-03-03 08:32:43 · 16 answers · asked by C_cat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, in some cases. I dated a 17 year old guy when I was 14 and we remain very close friends (I am married now to a different, but more wonderful guy ;-)). He never pressured me into sex or anything like that, and was very respectful. That being said... in most states as soon as he turns 18, it will likely be illegal for them to do anything sexual. Of course, dating relationships shouldn't have to be sexual. If he is a good guy, and she is a mature girl, there shouldn't be a problem, but the parents should be okay with it on both sides.
2007-03-03 08:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a mother of an eigtheen year old mother ( married too) no the age is not right and that is from first hand eyesight on that age relationship. Her first serious boyfriend was 17 and she was 14..... he expected more and so she gave him more and still he betrayed her............she then met another guy she was 16 he almost 18...... the age and mind differences are so much more to do with expectations....I love my grandson but know if she has concentrated on her exams and schoolwork as half as much as she did of her boyfriend at time then she would've stayed at school and been in a better state than she is now..............that is the most honest answer I can give
2007-03-03 16:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by angelrose0105 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the fact your asking this means you have qualms. You'll either be told you're a pedophile or a hero. Ignore it. Do YOU think it's wrong? Does she? Do either of your parents? Does your state's law? These are important. The views of a bunch of opinionated assholes (and I am one, and proud) is not. If that's what you want though-It won't seem so O.K. when her father breaks your legs, or Give me both ur numbers lol (actually, do ;))
2007-03-03 16:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the maturity of the boy and how much trust u can have in the relationship. the reason why most see have an older bf is because older guys tend to believe that they can control them especially at a young age. so it really depends on the girl and her control and the amount of maturity but i have allways liked older men so... i wouldnt see a large problem.
2007-03-03 16:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmm....at that age, that is a big gap. I am 23 and am dating a 26 year old guy but at my age the gap is smaller. I would be VERY careful and take it VERY slowly
2007-03-03 16:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by katie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little young but I think it's bearly ok. 15 would be better. or even 16 would be best for him.
2007-03-03 16:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by You may be right 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it means u hav no game, yeah she mite b special, but once u hit 18 thts against the law. they changed it 2 wear the 4 yr rule is noninvoid.
2007-03-03 16:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by The Notorious 1! 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wow! I used to be in the EXACT same possition! hmm... well it depends as long as you know your not wanting to date her b/c you wanna lay her. make a smart choice!
2007-03-03 16:37:08 · answer #8 · answered by off_road_chick_9219 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think that was ok but now I don't think so.
2007-03-03 16:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by ilovetrack18 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you heard the expression, "AGE AINT NOTHING BUT A NUMBER"
2007-03-03 16:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by princess!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋