ok im not being vain and please dont take it the wrong way but im quite a pretty confident blonde slim atheletic green eyed girl, I look kinda like my avator but thats a cartoon so that doesnt matter !!! But anyway Im 18 and constitently get approached by loads guys at clubs and i mean quite a lot which is fine I like the attention.. who doesnt ?? Yet if i i end up kissing a guy and actually start liking him he will txt me the next day but then randomly stop and its like what why , the only reason why I ask could it be because i was good looking is cos my friend Andy said it might be because of that , I really need some help I really like this guy at the moment and i dont know whether i should txt him r not and parts of me think its cos he might be scared to txt me what do you think or am i just diluding myself , any advice and please Please dont think im vain im really not....Im so lonely saturday night and im all alone !!!
2007-03-03 08:31:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who cares about guys? I mean you gotta love them, but don't let them dictate how pretty you are. Don't be too confident either, thats a turn off. Having low self esteem is a turn off too. Find a balance with the esteemness lol. Some guys just don't know what they want, and thats fine, it would suck if yall started a relationship and dated for 3 years and then he'd say, "Ok goodbye". So at least he's honest from day 1!
2007-03-03 08:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd scare the beejeesus out of most guys. But you'd probably be a little lonely, too. Do something imagewise that will make it seem to guys that they're not inferior. It's only for show.
A bartenderer friend of mine told me it's the pleasingly attractive woman rather than the knockout who gets all the guys. I think it's because the guys don't feel in awe of her. At first, looks is all you have to go on. Maybe if they weren't scared off you'd get to know a lot more of them.
2007-03-03 08:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well boys to get intimitdated with a beautiful women. But A man liek me would cherish the luck of having such a beautiful woman to go out text or IM . I would call everyday and text you all the time. Because I don't get intimidated by nothing. I would love to have you on my arm while I was walking in the mall, street, or anywhere. And I would hold hands with you too. SO im me anytime.
2007-03-03 08:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do sound vain! I have never been or ever will be intimidated by a good looking girl. But I would never go out with a girl who would have the nerve to describe herself as "really hot". If you were as hot as you think you wouldn't be all alone on a Saturday night!
2007-03-03 08:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by SidTheKid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the 2nd part of your message is a bit confusing. in any case if you are good looking you will get approached by many men in your life. you are just 18 and there will be many saturdays nights in your life. i dont think that you could find someone nice in clubs. just start some activities you like (p.ex. dancing, sports etc) and you will eventually find somenone who has also same interests as you. if you have found somenone to go out, just go for a coffee and chat with him. think carefully if you like him and dont just get kissed from anyone you are not sure you like
2007-03-03 08:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by zeke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes is the answer. Some guys are shier than others, and some feel that really good looking girls may be out of their league. At the end of the day beauty is in the eye of the beholder and different guys like different things in girls.
2016-03-28 22:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinks it's kinda the opposite, your the pretty and approachable type. The guys who come after you probably aren't really interested in the first place. If they're not afraid to confront you in the club, then they are not intimidated by your looks.
2007-03-03 08:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this may sound really gay and fast forward but a lot of guys lik it when the girl makes the first move...so jus tak it a step at a time and txt him first...it may work it may not but if it doesn't then there r PLENTY of other fish in the sea...all different kinds...all different personalities...well if HE doesn't work out then mayb an other guy will...but seriously jus make the first move and txt him
2007-03-03 08:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by Moira B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a verry pretty gal for sure but some times it kind of happens that you havent actually found the right guy for your self yet but you will find some one out there that will really fall in love with you for sure when the time is right
2007-03-03 08:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by haroldgardner62002006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really easy, just pick up the white pages and call all the guys you prefer and leave a call back number and decide which guy you want to date or guys that you want to date or dates! Whatever your perefences are.
2007-03-03 08:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by " Venom !! " 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋