I haven't seen him in a really long time and people say its because they think he needs some time alone...do u think he would've told me?? or is it for some other reason...or do u think we will still b ok together??? we love each other to the end of the world and even tho long time no see we still manage to talk on the phone for about 2 or 3 hours a day...we go to the same school but we r in different grades...wat is going to happen?? please give me advice...
2007-03-03 08:30:56 · 7 answers · asked by Moira B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think about what you can do to convince mom/dad that you are exactly the person they want their son hanging with. then, go for it. always see yourself through the eyes of others and strive to be the best - even if you don't get the boy, you will be off to a great start in everything you do and always, always end up with this guy's equal or, better.
lolls in relationships can have one of only two outcomes: you mope around, shut down and obsess over the absence or, you spend the time doing the things that will make you even more desirable when the two of you start seeing each other again.
use this time to do the things that you love doing but perhaps, your boyfriend doesn't share an interest in. use this time for self-improvement.
the point being that you can never control another's behavior or, actions or, amount of commitment to you. the only thing you can control is has you let these slow times affect you. use them to become a better person than before.
other than that, since you two are so connected, ask him to be honest with you about what is going on! and don't place blame or, guilt upon him when doing so - you'd be less likely to get a honest answer if guide him to giving only the answer you want to hear. if he's truly your friend, he will welcome the opened door to talking.
always, always remember, your 'baby' is not your life. YOU are the one you are going to be stuck with and you are the one you need to focus upon when he is not around.
good luck!
2007-03-03 08:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey.... i'm sorry to burst your bubble.... but it sounds like you are really young... and it sounds like his parents are trying to do the RIGHT thing for him.... which is keep him focused in SCHOOL!
You need to do the same.... trust me.... learning a new math problem or remembering some history dates will be a lot easier when you don't have to focus so much on what your boyfriend is or isn't doing.
2007-03-03 16:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by gabster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go see him and try to help him with his mothers cancer problem. Just dont forget that he could be alergic to bees, and the doctor might not know that. It could actually worsen the situation if you dont use the right pants. So be careful.
2007-03-03 16:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by never_myndd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you become an adult this will all be history, and no need for such drama. time cures every thing.
2007-03-03 16:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you havent seen him. he doesn't want you. simple as that. dont even tell yourself lies. move on! men are not complicated creatures, either they want you or not.
2007-03-03 16:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by OpenMePoet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sneek out
2007-03-03 16:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by Tot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you become lonely.
2007-03-03 16:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by sunnydays 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋