i really like someone but he doesnt like me back so how do i stop loving him? and how do i get him out of my mind? HELP ME PLEASE!! <3
2007-03-03 08:27:08 · 20 answers · asked by cutie_pie44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to let it run its course. You like that person until you see his flaws or you find someone new to like. You could start by making a list of all his flaws and that might help you see that he isn't as great as u might think he is. Also, go out and have fun, enjoy life!! Good luck !!
2007-03-03 08:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by aysha a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been in this situation b4 and it's not nice!. Probably best not to try and stop loving him, that just makes it worse. Get some councelling if you can and try and keep yourself busy. Take up the gym, start running, plan for something eg..a holiday, new outfit, or something you have always wanted, or wanted to do. Nothing is going to stop the love, until it runs its course, so get active, don't let the situation take anymore of your power. Don't hang-out at any of the places he goes too, avoid them, avoid him!
Believe me, over time it will get better and there will be days where you won't think of him.
If you have good supportive friends let them know what you are feeling.
Take care of yourself and remember, there is a perfect man out there for you. He will love you and appreciate you back. Hang on to that!
2007-03-03 17:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Purity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy take a trip to Las Vegas one weekend if you are old enough ofcourse... Before you go make sure you deleted everything that reminds you about him etc and have fun don't call him if he calls even if is going to hurt don't never answer him and and always remember that he is not the only male in the whole planet...And remember that always things like this will happend to every single living person in this whole planet...So remember you are not alone if that helps to be easy with your pain everybody once in their life is been hurt by that bug named love it haven'y bite me so I don't know how you are feeling but I hear alot so I guess that is my own words...I am 36 and life is the most precious thing in this world so Good luck with you love bug ....
2007-03-03 16:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl when you get the answer email me. net30cal@yahoo.com. I want to stop loving someone right now. I can't. I told him that I needed to distance myself from him for a month or so. But it isn't working. I still think about him and now I have started dreaming about him. I have no advice, I need help with that.
2007-03-03 16:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant really do anything to stop loving someone. u just stop. go somwhere with sum freinds and have some fun 2 get him out of your mind. thats all i can say
2007-03-03 16:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by xlittle_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had the same problem i liked a guy for 5 years and he never liked me back one time we made out but that was it so one day i decided it was probably time to get over him and i cried alot but heres what you do every night you tell yourself 50 times i do not like him then you go to bed thinking that then think why do i like him then try to find somebody who actually wants to be with you
2007-03-03 16:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Dahling_Bitch17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been going threw this alot.! it seems like you just like him..
i liked this guy because he alwayz flirting with me and i found out he would give me a chance but its the age differance.. age matters to him.. well i still kicked it with him after i found out age matters to him, but as time went by and i got to know him more he was soo not my type.. all you got to do is look at the stupid things that he does and you will relize he isnt for you.. hes just eye candy to you rite now you dont know the real him yet...
2007-03-03 16:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by Ldy_s15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortuantely there is no way to STOP loving someone. In time you will get over him though!
2007-03-03 16:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by ChristinaN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your mind on someone else, keep occupied doing someone I mean something else
2007-03-03 16:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to tell you this but...you don't. just try not to think about him. as time goes by things will get better and you wont care for him as much. unless he does something to you to hurt and you just dont love him anymore. then time is the only answer
2007-03-03 16:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by Yana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋