Ok so i was dating this guy for about three monthes and he lives not even a mile away from my house, but the problem is, his friends live about 55 minutes away, and recently he told me that we have to be just friends for now because he is not ready for a long term relationship. But i honestly want him so bad. What should i do? what would drive him insane? i mean he still wants to talk and and hang out but his friends are driving a wedge inbetween us and i am honestly not trying to stop him from seeing his friends.
2007-03-03 07:59:50 · 4 answers · asked by brittany K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to respect his wishes
2007-03-03 08:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by johnc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure why you relate what he said to you with his other friends... two very different things!! You need to get off your pitty pot and talk to him - no games - might not get you what you want 'cuz he has already made the decisions for both of you - but it might be worth trying. It's VERY difficult to bridge a gap when it's only being built from one side... good luck!! HERE IS HOW HE SEES THIS: His friends are being what they have always been for him. YOU are the one driving the wedge!
2007-03-03 08:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now he has told you he does not want a long term relationship, now you have to except it, if not you are going to get hurt, so give him his space. Just be friends with him, and see where that takes you. now if you want more, then you need to move on. because, he is not on the same page with you! Now he may change his mind, but do you really want to wait around to see what he wants to do?
2007-03-03 08:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it
2007-03-03 08:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋