It's not always easy to tell. The easiest way, unfortunately, is to put yourself out there and ask if he wants to hang out with you sometime. Often times the way he answers, or the look on his face gives it away. Sometimes it won't.
If you aren't so open to approaching him directly, you should arrange a group of friends to go to the movies or the mall and invite him with the group. This way you can start to get to know him without feeling like it's a date.
And responding to those that say he's a player - it's possible, but you can't always write off someone who flirts as a player. Sometimes guys (and girls) flirt because that's how they communicate - they may just be uncomfortable with any other kind of open communication so it comes out that way. I would know, I was one of those in high school.
It's important to remember though, that it's always best to build up a friendship first and let it go where it will. If you don't know him that well now, take the time to get to know him and see if you still like him as much.
2007-03-03 08:04:38
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answered by JennyRose 2
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Sweetheart i was recently in a situation like this. Players only want to hit it and quit it or just mess around with a girls emotions. If you know he's checking out other girls, it makes no difference what he does to you. Like someone else said, play hard to get, and if he comes back and tries to get with you then you'll know for sure if he's right. There are PLENTY of sweet and cute guys out there that are complete gentlemen and can satisfy all your needs and wants! Trust me! :)
2007-03-03 08:09:58
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answered by colorfulgarden 1
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It's possible he likes you, especially if he acts differently around you. You say he is a player and flirts with all the girls, so check out how he flirts with the other girls and compare how he acts with them to how he acts with u. If he's more genuine with you, then why not try and make a move on him?
Of course, if he is the same with you as he is with other girls then I'd say don't go for it just yet but flirt with him all the same.
2007-03-03 08:09:28
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answered by katkitten135 2
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You'd like to think so, wouldn't you? But the truth is, he's a player -- which means that ALL of the girls he flirts with think he likes them better than the others. Run, don't walk, far away from this guy. You'll only get your heart broken if you don't.
2007-03-03 08:04:12
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answered by D'archangel 4
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Most likely, yeah. But, then again, he's a player, so it's not like you're the only one he's after. He might just be playing with you. Your best bet is to be straight-forward and just ask..
2007-03-03 08:07:43
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answered by C.S. 1
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Well their a problem with players. I know it so tempting but I had a player wants and he just thought of me as a cute sidekick!!!
2007-03-03 08:02:21
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answered by allycat 2
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yes he may like you BUT players give all girls those looks and etc. They want all girls to want them. they get bored with ONE girl too easily. keep that in mind. there are lots of nice guys willing to stay with one girl and be with that ONE girl. stay away from players. they're jus heartbreak.
2007-03-03 08:02:52
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answered by ? 5
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never trust a player, you'll just get hurt and they're always looking for the next best thing.
Sorry
2007-03-03 08:06:23
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answered by xo-Stacey-ox 2
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if hes a player. then thats what he tries to do with u. he tries to make gurls think they're the only ones. but its not true. i say u move on cuz it ain't worth it. =|
2007-03-03 08:02:56
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answered by Perfectly Unperfect Gurl 2
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once a player aways a player leave hem alone if you know what best for you
2007-03-03 08:03:00
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answered by Anonymous
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