Okay, I’ve been dating a guy for about a month and a half. We talk everyday and see each other about twice a week. We haven't had the exclusive talk yet. I'd be more than happy to be exclusive, however, I don't want to pressure him into it so I’m not bringing it up. Lately a few other guys have asked me out. So I'm playing with the idea of saying yes, because after all this other guy and I haven't had the talk, therefore other guys are still free game. The thing is when we talk every day he always asks me "so what did you do today" and "what are you doing tonight". I'd feel weird saying "going on a date." I think it would be a bit of a curve ball. I know if he said that to me I’d be upset. I don't want to upset him or lose him because I really really like him. But at the same time it's like well why am I being so faithful if he hasn't even asked me to be. I don't think he's seeing anyone else but he certainly could be since we've never discussed it. What should I do?
2007-03-03 07:57:33 · 5 answers · asked by katiebeth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just bring up the issue without putting any pressure on him. You need to find out what he is thinking/feeling about the relationship. If you do go out on a date with someone else, that could easily hurt the relationship. He might wonder why you didn't ask before you did it. Just ask if he still wants to see other people or not?
2007-03-03 08:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you -want- to be exclusive, the best way to bring up the topic might be to actually date other guys! That might make him want to have the exclusive talk. I say give it a shot!
2007-03-03 16:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by diffusemenow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd wait for him, if you think that he's worth it. Just because you haven't specifically talked about it doesn't mean that it won't hurt your relationship to go out with someone else.
2007-03-03 16:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Definitely talk to him about it he maybe afraid of rejection.
2007-03-03 16:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ginger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's shy. my boyfriend was and I had to ask him for him to ask me out! lol.
2007-03-03 16:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by beauty&brains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋