Is that going to make a guy respect me more? Times really do change, is that still important for a guy?
2007-03-03 07:57:29 · 29 answers · asked by Unique Love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kiss, but no sex....let him chase you, but don't play games
2007-03-03 08:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by babeebluez73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you wait for the second if you feel you wanted to kiss on your first date? You can be honest with yourself and be respected at the same time. Me and my girlfriend where courting for 7 months through phone for I worked abroad, it's funny that the first time we met in a nice city garden, I went off the bus while she waits on the park, until the last moment before we revealed ourselves in person to each other we used the phone while we approach then kissed passionately for the first time. It was a nice decent kiss, we are also dressed professionaly at that time. Just simply loving it and we were never engaged in any relationship other that ours. We are now married for four years already and have now two kids. The kids show their affection, care, and most of all love by hugs and kisses. So nothing wrong with a kiss, it won't degrade you as long as there is love, hapiness, and respect.
2007-03-03 16:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Dosage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about how you feel about it, not what anyone else feels - for me personally - I would like to get to know a guy a bit before kissing - I think thats a very personal thing and I dont feel the need to kiss someone just because they want to. Look at it this way - if a guy wants to and you say no - and he insists - you dont want him anyway - thats called control issues.
2007-03-03 16:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only do so if you are ready and you know the guy is ready. Stay safe and allow him to make the first move. If you think he is shy or not ready, simply wait until you know each other better! There is nothing wrong with not kissing on the first date. Good luck.
2007-03-03 16:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Alice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't think there's anything wrong with a little peck on the cheek on your first date, but I guess it really depends on how the date goes and how comfortable you are with the guy. If the guy is gonna freak out because you DON'T kiss him on the first date, he's got issues.
2007-03-03 16:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by new_friends_gr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if a guy has to work for you, he'll be less likely to break off without a really good reason. They don't want to lose all the time and effort that they put into the relationship.
2007-03-03 15:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss yes
sex not unless the date is more that a day long.
I allies try to kiss the gril at a end of a date I think it would be rude of me not to.
2007-03-03 16:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by derek48316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you haven't known the guy for long, I'd wait a while.
If he's a really close friend that you've liked for a while, go ahead... after all, you have to be comfortable with him to have been friends with him for so long.
2007-03-03 16:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by Flappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your really drawn to the guy and the timing works out then kiss him but if you just want a boyfriend and you arent really interested in him, or you dont know him well, dont just kiss him
2007-03-03 16:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the type of kiss, and where. I personally wouldn't, but I am a chickenshit softy when it comes to girls... Sorry could help you out better then that...
2007-03-03 16:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by zhell1313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you feel sparks between the person, you should kiss on the first date. but if not, then you should hold off. you may end up not being attracted to them, and by kissing them you build up their feelings and stuff like that.
2007-03-03 16:00:17 · answer #11 · answered by MiSS MELODY x3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋