Hi, one of my friends is going through a rough time with a guy that she met and his asking me for advice. So i need your help! They met maybe about 3 months ago, and she is ready to get into a relationship with him. She's not sure he is, although he keeps mentioning how he wants her in bed. Is this just a little tease or does he just really want her in bed and not a relationship at all?
2007-03-03 07:48:55 · 9 answers · asked by colorfulgarden 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She should wait until he's ready for a relationship or move on. I mean 3 months and all she's gotten is "I wanna get you in bed"? That's not good. I see future problems with this one.
2007-03-03 07:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay. well tell her to take it slow 7 steady...but dont rush it.if she suspects that hes the type of guy that just wants her in bed without a relationship then he doesnt stand a chance. but tell them to date for a couple of months or even weeks before they consider the "bed" expression.
2007-03-03 15:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Malayia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he is probably telling the truth and is looking for sexual gratification, there are men out ther that is all they want, no commitment no caring just sex, and it is all about him, you are only the vessel so to speak, so tell her that if she were to become involved with this sort of man ishe should expect NOTHING in return from such a person
2007-03-03 15:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just in bed from the sounds of it. Do they do things together or is he just after IT. If he's just after it she needs to get out her best boots and kick his *ss to the curb
2007-03-03 15:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her not give it up unless that is all she wants. The relationship will move up to that on its own, don't rush it. especially if she is young. He is looking for no relationship
2007-03-03 15:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by loulou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We know nothing about the relationship...My guess is he wants her in bed..
2007-03-03 15:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he keeps bringing up sex then that's probably all he wants. a guy who wants to be with someone and means it wouldn't bring the bedroom into the conversation until they were officially a couple. tell her to watch her back, he sounds kinda suspicious.
2007-03-03 15:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by rubydoobydoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a sad fact is sex for women means love but men or boys can have sex with out the total loving relationship. she should talk to her parents about it.
2007-03-03 18:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE JUST WANTS TO SLEEP WITH HER
2007-03-03 15:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by CNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋