how do i make my ex want just so can say no?

Question

i asked befor how to pay my ex back for ceating on me so now that i kow that i shood make him want me back & then say no how do i make him want me with out a bf ps i am just 13

Answer 1

talk about other guys to your friends and random people around your school. just because you're 13 and your friends really only consist of the kids in your school doesn't mean you can't make up other guys. the idea of you with someone else is enough to make him jealous and feel like crap for losing you. trust me, it works like a charm.

Answer 2

You have the wrong way of thinking. That is not the right way to start out especially at your age.

Some boy who cheats is not worth your anger. Do not let him let you turn bitter.

Don't make him want you back just so you can turn him down. I use to think that way too. Isn't the right way. Trust me. It isn't worth your time or your effort to wast those thoughts on him, no matter how much you want to.

What goes around WILL come around and you will have to trust that it will. He will get what is coming to him, the lord says that in the Bible. It is hard when you are angry at him. I have been cheated on many times and it hurts so much. You are too young to become so bitter.

Let him go. He is not worth your time. Move on to your studies and when you are truely ready for a relationship, a good guy will come and sweep you off your feet. You have to let him go in order for a new guy to come into your life.

You are too young to have a guy anyway. I was not allowed to date until I was 16 and then I wasn't really ready until I was almost 18. Guys are not mature enough at that age, as you can tell. Wait until you are ready and they can show you they are worthy of a real realationship. When you know more of what you want. You must become friends with the guy first. You must always be honest and communicate even if the conversation is uncomfortable. Never let them push you into doing something you are not ready for. There are far too many things you can catch that you may not want, if you let them push you into something like sex when you are not ready, even if you feel you are. Be safe and not sorry.

Hugs to you.

Go out and do things with our friends. They will always be their for you in the end.

Answer 3

Let it go! You won't pay him back because once he sees that you went to so much trouble to "pay him back" he will see that you actually still care about him, otherwise you wouldn't waste this time thinking about him. Then he will have the last laugh.

Just please let it go. He was a jerk, doesn't deserve another second of you in his life. Be glad you found out now instead of years down the road.

Hey, how about if you really want to "pay him back" you can warn any girl he talks to that he's a cheater. That way, you block him from hurting another girl! Now THAT is payback.

Answer 4

I totally know how you feel I'm in the same problem right now. but the best thing to do is act like you have moved on, becuase he doesn't want you to be out of hands reach and you can do this with out a bf just hang out with guys and don't look at him and ignore him for a while remember guys like a chase so give it to him but just act like you've moved on.....this worked very well last time i did it. Good Luck!!!

Answer 5

You are too valuable to sit around and think about paying him back. Go have fun, make new friends. Do things that will make you laugh, not cry. You are just setting yourself up for more pain. If he was worth having you would have him--he is a loser and you are better off without him. Upward and onward darlin'

Answer 6

honey, coming from a 17-year old with a LOT of experience in dating, love, life, drama, and revenge, you honestly need to get over it. you're just 13! you have your whole dating life in front of you. i'm sure you're a beautiful girl, and you can easily get someone better than that jerk. you deserve a boy who likes you for who you are, and won't cheat on you. revenge is sweet, but it's a giant waste of time and effort. also, there's no surefire way to get him to like you. you might actually get the revenge you seek if your ex sees you with another boy. shoot for a gorgeous new boytoy so he realizes that you can do better than the scum that he is. good luck, gorgeous!

Answer 7

Revenge is poison, once you get a hold of it, it just devours you! Let it go. If you live your life for revenge, what happens after you're done. You really won't feel happy, you'll need some other reason to live. In the end, you'll really just be embaressing yourself. Find someone better who will treat you right.
A.L.

Answer 8

If you are 13, you are to young to be worrying about this. You need to leave him be and move on. Focus on your studies. Besides, there is no such thing as a "boyfriend" at 13, just simply a male friend.

Answer 9

you just don't make a big deal out of it
he cheated on you and you really are pis**d
but don't let him know that
and don't make him want you back, that doesn't work
you just act as if he did you a favor
so what you're just thirteen and he wasn't gonna be your only boyfriend, he helped you get rid off him and find someone better, someone worth being with
so you don't care and everytime you see him you just act indifferent, don't ignore him but don't act as a friend either

Answer 10

act really sexy and look for a new bf and always act like guys are after u
got any guy friends, pretend to have a dramatic break up near ur ex and then act like a total ***** if he tries to make a move
ps, make a huge scene, popularity booster