ok i like this guy who is a year older than me...he is a player but becuz of that i cant tell if he actually likes me or is just flirting wiht me in his player ways...i callled him once a told him i liked him then we talked for about and hour..he stares at me at high school b-ball games but i still don't know if he likes me or not...plz help?
2007-03-03 07:39:43 · 13 answers · asked by coolbeans1611 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him out just you and him , if he likes you he'll jump at the chance and if he's being a flirt he won't. When people are dating there is a huge diffrence between saying yes with in seconds and having to think over your answer,believe me.
2007-03-03 07:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ann_Girl_619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself. This guy sounds like a Big Flirt and that's not what girls like they don't feel safe with a guy that behaves this way. You want to be able to trust a guy and if his reputation is even close to a player ... have some self respect and stay away.
2007-03-03 15:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think this guy is a player and is also sending you mixed messages your better off just leaving him alone. He probably does this to a lot of girls. Your not the only one ... the 1st one ... or the last one. Good Luck.
2007-03-03 15:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit while you're ahead! I know it'll be hard. In the end, you'll just set yourself up to be hurt. From experiences, they never change and the only pleassure they have is twisting you in their web of lies. I bet you're good looking you'll definately find someone way better for you!
A.L.
2007-03-03 15:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by Angelus L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next week please sign up for the following classes
(1) mind reading
(2) body language reading
(3) take at least 10 polls on every subject
(4) public speaking
(5) how to win friends and influence people.
If none of this works for you then you can do like the rest of us and ask him what he thinks about you, and then take what he says with a grain of salt.
2007-03-03 15:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Players flirt with girls that they just like.
Players DON'T flirt with girls that they really like/love. With these girls, they actually try to be sincere.
If he's using the same way he "got" other girls to "get you," then what is the difference between you & those other girls????
2007-03-03 15:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by sky2evan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i noe how u feel but most likely hell jus play u like he did all the othrs. im sure u deserve better than that
2007-03-03 15:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to convince him to like you.. you're not running out of men, my dear... be yourself, you'lle see.. if he's not the one for you, well be it. I do believe that someone will come sooner or later... believe me..
2007-03-03 15:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by snd_jeddah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away from him. You deserve better.
2007-03-03 15:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by divinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you and wants you as a girlfriend,and maybe he wants to be your friend only
2007-03-03 15:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋