I used to be a dancer. I met a man in 1998 who was 47 I was 18 then Im 27 now. After a year or so of him coming into the club I became friends with him. Okay i was using him. But was completely honest that I would never be in love with him. We never had sex. He told me on may occasions that he loved me, wanted to marry me and take me away from the crap in my life. He would come over and take me shopping all the time, he bought my home and all the furniture in my home. Nice stuff! Took me on several vacations to 5 star hotels. Bahamas, Nepal, California and to many casinos. Bought all my clothes, food and paid all my bills.
I went through my share of boyfriends, all jerks...
In 2003 he told me he couldnt continue our friendship because he met someone. A 45 yr old lady. No words since
I am a changed person, good job, stable financially. Ever since I have regretted that i never was real with him. that i never gave it a chance.
Do I miss the trips & the money or do I miss him
2007-03-03 07:28:17 · 3 answers · asked by megs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it fair to mess up what he may have going on possibly a marriage if Im not sure?
2007-03-03 07:29:35 · update #1
Okay, I'm not entirely sure that I should be telling you this, but I feel obliged to give it a swing as I went through something like it years ago. Bottom line, though: He knew what he was getting into, and now he's out. He's decided to do something on his own, and there shouldn't be any regrets. Should you feel guilty? That's up to you. But keep in mind that you didn't give him any illusions about the situation, and he chose to do what he did. My advice is to learn from what happened, and move on. He has found someone closer to his age, and now he wants to move on, himself; give him his due and let him go. And go do your own thing. 27 isn't really old; trust me, I've been there. So get out there and start looking.
2007-03-03 07:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what you said, you only miss the gifts cos i didnt read anything about his character or feelings you had for him. he made a great effort to win your heart but he couldnt. other girls would have offered their love for such a person but you had the power to refuse. he had the right to accept it and move on. you should do the same. you are still a young girl to meet someone.
2007-03-03 15:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by zeke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You miss the lavish life that he was giving you. You don't miss him, try to do those things on your own; and not have someone do it for you.
2007-03-03 15:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋