me and my ex gf broke up about a month ago, it hurt, i was really serious about her, now in her IM name she has "why wont you kiss me back" i think theres a new guy in her life and it hurts, i thought i was over her but when i read that i got upset, im trying to move on and get over her its just so hard, does anone have any tips?
2007-03-03 07:25:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way to get over her to to not have contact with her. Delete her ID from your IM and move on.
2007-03-03 07:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by penhead72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, take her off of your IM list! You're just torturing yourself man! I suppose SHE's the one who broke up with you right? I can tell because she's over it and you aren't. You gotta understand, when someone does the breaking up, they've had time to mourn the relationship, they had time to think it over so they can get over it faster cuz basically, she did get over it before she brought it up to you. So now you are the only one hurting. You have to break all contact and don't keep "dibs" on her. Maybe start chatting up some new girl, hmmm? (not me I'm taken)
When you find yourself thinking about her, think instead of the fact that she ALREADY has a new man. Be mad! Don't let yourself pine away for some chick who doesn't care about you anymore! I think being mad is better than being sad. Good luck.
2007-03-03 15:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is hard, but i dont know! maybe if you still really like her, tell her how much you luv her and miss her and maybe she will give you another chance, if not then maybe it just wasnt meant to be!! If yall dated for a long time, then truth is she probably still has feelings for you as long as yall didnt break up because you cheated or lied or something like that!! So if u talk to her and she doesnt seem interested then try to make her jealous!!?!?!?!
2007-03-03 15:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart tells u- if u love her, forget the past n make it work starting all over again. If u think u r not sure, go over all the reasons to and not to be with her and go by what weighs more. If u r sure it's over from your side, u shouldn't be bothered by what she does.
All the best.
2007-03-03 15:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by ak25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on new girls.
Yes it hurts, so what?
You will live and geta better chick than her anyway
if you try
2007-03-03 15:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a game. she has no one and is writing that to make you jealous.
2007-03-03 15:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by edna b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋