theres a boy that ive liked for absolutly ages but i was certain he didnt feel the same he just wanted to be friends but we started to talk a lot online an there was lots of flirting like he kept asking to go on webcam an stuff and saying very obvious cheeky comments and i loved the attention off him then at a christmas party with excess alcohol we ended up getting close and spending the night together (not sex but almost) we are both still virgins so this was a big deal it was alos noticed by many people and rumours have been spread around about what exactly happened. He now seems too embarrased to speak to me an denied the whole event even saying he was asleep through it all but for sum reason i still really really like him should i tell him how i feel ???
2007-03-03 07:18:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you should.
2007-03-03 07:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by Steel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a male I think honesty is best. You also know that if you dont ask you will never find out. I find I am more flirty online!! I dont understand why, but I find it easier. The fact that he got close prob does not mean anything, if you were both drunk and not totally sure what was going on. Be honest with him and ask him how he feels, and tell him he doesnt need to be shy around you. If he doesnt feel the same way as you with regards to feelings, you know there is someone else out there for you!! I would guess he doesnt, simply for the reason that hes denying all that happened. Either that or hes not sure cos he doesnt like the rumours about it all.
2007-03-03 15:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him how you feel, men are dense at the best of times, but to be fair to them their not mind readers.
He probably feels a bit embarrased about what happened that night, not because he does not like you, even boys are prone to being bashful at times.
As for the rumours, ignore them, you and him both know what happened or didn't as the case may be, so if people want to speculate let them.
Tell him how you feel and if doesn't feel the same at least you'll know and can try and move on!
Good luck.
2007-03-03 15:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't fell that there is anything wrong, sounds like a great place to be in right now, i know how you feel, its great but there are a lot of things to consider, But don't worry, it happens to us all. I can't really say fact for fact how things should be because its your choice at the end of the day. and that's the important thing, choice. Never let others who can't see the whole picture tell you what great things are waiting for you. If you like this boy/guy then tell him without any pressure on you, if this is by yourself's or in a with other friends, again choice, its yours! be open to yourself, think about whats best for you, if he can't step up and show you or tell you what he's thinking of felling about then thats his choice. if you do talk to him, ask him if he's embarrassed about being with you. Hold your head up high, you sound like someone who deserves the same as your willing to give.
2007-03-03 15:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kickback 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know whats your backround but ima puertorican spainard black. This might sound a little "ghetto" but this is what you should do, grab him somewhere and talk to him when nobody is around. say to him "why are u so embarressed and why r u denying me!" let him answer, and then b like "its none of anybody's bizz for wat WE do" let him try to say sorry and stuff.... then be like.... "If i didnt care for you, do u think i would be having this conversation" watch wen u say dis ... he gonna feel really stuipid! and if he still wants to front about it and deny u make him jealous!!!!!! lol and for the record mamaz.... never do anything with a boy u DONT go out with.... cuz most of them juss wanna hear u scream there name.
2007-03-04 04:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by ***Mz.Christina*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should. Perhaps he is acting this way because he thinks that is the way you feel. Let him know your true feelings and least you will know where this relationship is heading. If he was flirting with you before I am sure he is interested really. If you tell him how you feel it puts the ball into his court to allow him to feel safe making a move on you.
2007-03-03 15:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jolly Jo Jo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No reason why not. Be honest with any relationship is a solid start. Whatever might the outcome be, you lose nothing you are not meant to lose. It might just put you two closer together.
2007-03-07 07:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by MoiMoii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him.
Also be more prudent in the future - is this the right time for 'too much alcohol' and 'loss of virginity?'
2007-03-06 14:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, obviously that would NOT make you look like a massive stalker, telling people how you spent the night together and chasing after this individual in a creeper-ish way...
2007-03-03 15:24:09 · answer #9 · answered by the misomaniac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much of a guy if he tries to deny what you both found OK at the time so why do you still feel you want to see him?
2007-03-03 15:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋